What would you consider "real punishment"

[Akari]

I agree with denusri and gabriel. Just knowing that I've disappointed them is enough to make me feel terrible about disobeying. Whenever I'm with a Dom, I always have a terribly strong desire to please them, so when I know I've displeased them it's worse than any physical punishment they can give me.

However, as far actual punishments go... Orgasm denial. I hate having my orgasms taken away from me. :C So it's fairly effective when I know if I do something I won't get to cum for however long my Dom sees fit.

[Leona1993]

I agree with denusri and gabriel. Just knowing that I've disappointed them is enough to make me feel terrible about disobeying. Whenever I'm with a Dom, I always have a terribly strong desire to please them, so when I know I've displeased them it's worse than any physical punishment they can give me.

However, as far actual punishments go... Orgasm denial. I hate having my orgasms taken away from me. :C So it's fairly effective when I know if I do something I won't get to cum for however long my Dom sees fit.

I couldn't agree more with you! When it comes to sex and BDSM, psychological pain is far more painful than the physical one.