I love asking questions (: I'm pretty positive I would be a sub, not a dom. I'm too indecisive to make my own choices, let alone tell someone else what to do. So when you give someone a set of rules, how are you sure that they follow them? And what kind of rules are they? Would you give me chores to do? And then how would you punish someone from so far away? Is this mostly based on trust and communication?