Ever hear the story that eskimos have over 100 words for ice?
Every nasty degrading word ever devised has two meanings, the normal vanilla word meaning and the BDSM meaning. Mixing the discussion between the two only causes confusion and hurt.
My def of a whore inside BDSM is of a wonderful person who trusts me to call them that to make them feel a hightened sexual tension but who does not internalize the word and belive its true.
Make sense?