Great attitude!
Now get online and find your local BDSM group, I guarantee there is one if not more where you live.
They will have munches, where you can meet the people involved and they will have play parties where all the fun happens.

Get out and see who the dominants are in your area, meet them, talk to them play with them.
Be flexible, (yeah yeah hush, you know what I mean) finding the right dom isn't like finding a boyfriend, he might be older than you, younger than you, maybe doesn't have the most perfect body or hair but if he knows how to put you in your place and keep you there all the other things may not seem as important.

Good luck!