I just wasn't sure how to go about getting it after the reception I got last time. I'm definitely going to take this approach this time to see if it reaps better results.[/QUOTE]

I really hope it works for you too
Another piece of advice, if I may? Don't try and hurry this process with your husband. I did and I had to take a step back for a while. We are now slowly starting to move forward again. I used this time to read as many of the forums here and learned a lot.

All the best
Vicki