A turn on is something like...OOOooooOO he gave me flowers how sweet or ohhhh I just love it when he breaks out with the whip being all tough as opposed to the soft approach and a fetish is like I may not have sex covered in wax or leather etc (something) everytime...but when I do it's got to be vinyl, leather just doesnt cut the mustard, only vinyl seems to make me purrr I crave it, I cant stop thinking about how wearing it makes me wet etc..