What is the difference

[thir]

I've been reading the "what is your fetish" pages, and I'm by no means through with all the pages, but it got me wondering what do you all think is the difference between a fetish and a turn on?

Taking to people who define themselves as fetishists, it seems to me to be 1) something some (but by no means all) have to have, and 2) something which, when you have it, works wonders every time!

It can be something you dress in or touch - leather, silk, vinyl, fur, rubber.

It can be an object. Examples from these talks are: a radio antenna, rain clothes, being wrapped in cling film, a baby's craddle, a baby's dummy, a bycycle, feathers. It can be anything, including stuff which to other people doesn't seem to be remotely connected to anything sexual.

It can be bodyparts - foot fetishism is quite common, and/or high heels.

Personally I think it can also be situations - bondage, chains, a D's situation, an abduction..whatever.

If you have something you must have or would SO like to have and which gets you off every time, it is that magic wand called a fetish :-)