Quote Originally Posted by vampiress View Post
thank you all for your advice thinking i will got with a mix and match of some of the ideas however i do not want to overwelm him and scare him away however after reading everything posted i think i found just the way to introduce it thank you all again for your advice it was very much needed and appreciated.
Okay... so now you have to share it with us. And the results. It's part of the learning process for everyone. What parts of the advice you included, excluded, and innovated, and how it was all received so others with the same issue might benefit now and in the future.

And of course, any sex and kink that ensued, with lurid details, so others with the same interests might "benefit" now... and if especially lurid, again and again in the future.