Hello and welcome on/in/whatever.
But yes I was not formed at your age either, I were definitely switch just like you.
So no worries there. We all find out what we like eventually.

We do indeed use online to meet people, though not all go for cam or even pics.
I have dated 2 who I did not know what they looked like the first time we were going to meet.
I'm not certain it can be recommended to do such blind dates, but worked out marvellous for us.
But I guess that give the female to one last chance to check you out before approaching you.

So many words, bottom line is that not all do reveal themselves. (And before you ask, both happened to be cute.)