It looks to me as if hubby feels he has lost his woman to her Master....And of course he has..But then it sounds as if hubby wants to be owned as well...I understand that your not interested in him..Neither would I be ,but what a marvelous oppertunity to get them BOTH into your fold...The marvelous tasks to given to them both,either as indeviduals or as a team..Of course they would both have to be taught about the pitfalls of dishonesty...Think about it...