So, you've, like, seen her on cam or talked on the phone with her? Or did she just tell you not to worry by email? I mean, did you get any real proof of her being who she claims to be? If not, I'd not walk out of her way, I'd run like hell.

Also, re your Mistress' reputation: Seeing that she hasn't posted a single post and has no friends besides you on this site, I'd say there's not much to ruin in that regard.

All the best & be safe.