Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
My last bondage scene was a body harness, tight to give a sense of being held and secure plus stimulating pressure on her crotch, followed by a dragonfly arm binding to make her conversely feel helpless. I tossed her around a bit, never letting go of the bindings. Her immediate fear of falling followed by her immediate realization that I was in control and holding her safely, created a psyche snap that made her absolutely giddy. Better than a roller coaster ride... followed by an overwhelming orgasm (remember the crotch rope.)

She was very grateful thereafter... and demonstrated her gratuity.
This is a great example. I really feel that I can't add much more to what has already been said above. Another thing that we like to add to being tied up is a lot of sensation play. Having different items such as silk scarves, feathers, even just His fingertips really adds to a bondage moment. Of course, there are also levels of pain that can be incorporated. I'm into the whole pain scene and honestly fully enjoy being bound as a paddle purples my ass. To each their own. Be experimental and you will find what does and doesn't do it for you