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Thanks--I know it helps me with lots of things. (And you may have noticed I have Stephen King-itis, also known as diarrhea of the mouth/word processor!)

Can/would anyone share what sorts of things might be in this type of journal in particular?

Once I had a Dom who wanted me to write 'reports' (he had a military background) after sessions. It worked for us both.