denuseri,
Thanks for your response. Just to clear up the misunderstanding - my Master is a woman. She prefers Master to Mistress. But yes, we are lesbians and so the messy stuff I was referring to was specifically regarding anal sex. And you are right, there is some mess to be expected I guess. A squishy bulb is a good idea. Like the kind you can get to help babies when they have a stuffy nose? Is that what you are talking about? I think I will get that. That would keep it from being too much water inside of me while still doing a little clean-up prior. I always do try and go to the bathroom before but sometimes it doesn't seem to matter. This is an area that Master is not willing to budge on as anal is one of her favorite things so I imagine, I am just going to have to do what I can and then just learn to deal with messes if they happen. Thanks for the squishy bulb idea - way better than an enema. Thanks again for your response. Much appreciated!