Hi,
Welcome from one old boy to another.
I find that we have similar interests.i have only just realised that I,ve been fooling myself for to long I have been in denial
And must do something about it, I have never had a sub/dom relationship the nearest i,ve cum is when I had a short friendship with a girl and we both experimented with a few restraints but that was 30 years ago (god doesn't time fly) I enjoyed it but never pursued it further.Like you I hope I havent missed the boat,I wish you good luck in your search.
Bubbles1