Ummm, Leo, I think I've already covered that I won't cheat. But thanks anyway

Thank you Ozme and Ksst for your wonderful suggestions (and I enjoy your posts, btw). However, I will never have this type of relationship with my husband - for very serious (and private) reasons. It may not be ideal, but we are still together. That's why I wanted to figure out how to do this on my own. So far books and toys are my best friends...lol.

So sorry Agnorris for hijacking your thread!!