*kiss*
I realise that, you lucky girl!!

I was simply concerned about the message being sent to people new to this that is ok to go into any kind of play without the option of a firm NO. Or even of new Dominants reading it and thinking they can demand to be obeyed.

A good friend always told me: We have to be wise in our kink. For many this is a step in that direction.

I make a point of getting to know some of the new subs here. And I have been shocked sometimes to see how many come into this without even considering hard limits. Nevermind soft ones. That attitude is sure to get them hurt. And that ignorance is damaging to the reputation of BDSM in general.

All this my humble opinion, of course.
vicki