Quote Originally Posted by hil View Post
Hi everyone. Just wanted to I guess put up a hello post to get myself out there. I've known about the lifestyle for a long time. I've always been interested in it. Still a new girl though I guess. I have figured out that I am a submissive. There are things that I have seen through research that make me think this may be a step in the right direction for me. So now I'm just wondering I guess if there is anyone willing to help teach me more about what living as a sub is like and also wanting to connect with people who have a same mind set as me.
I guess a little bit about me might help. I'm 23, living in colorado springs colorado. At this point I am working 60+ hours a week just trying to survive I guess. My best friend and her husband are swingers. I think they have given me the courage to reach out I guess is a good way to put it.
If you want to know anything else please ask either here or in a pm. I hope someone can I don't want to say help. But I guess give me insite and maybe be my first Dom?

I wouldnt worry about classifying yourself until you have been in the life style in real life for a while and gotten to actually try things out from every direction.

As for getting some one to help you:

I highly recommend against going private with any single online personality as opposed to getting all your info from a wide variety of sources out in the open where all is above board. A lot of people get taken advantage of the other way.

As for getting a dominant:

Real trust, takes real time, in real life to develop and its way easier to verify who is on the up and up in person.

Most major cities have a bdsm club or public dungeon in them where one can explore in a safe environment.

Good luck!