As a master I suggest you get to know a master in PM, and spend some time chatting. But the only way to really be mastered is in person. You need to have a plan presented by him, and you need to meet in public places at first, and have all info about each other in some secure place. there are many fools and impostors out there. Many women have been traumatized further by sadists, and worse. you have a trusted friend know where the info is and you promise to call once a week. you have a buzz word for danger, and a GPS in your phone