Does anyone else become very emotionally invested in their dominant in a very short amount of time? It seems inevitable that I form an incredibly intense attachment to my dominant very quickly, it seems inappropriate for the amount of time and it just causes problems. Is there some way to avoid this? I don't understand why it happens to me. I'm also very possessive, it needs to be a monogamous relationship or I lose completely lose interest. I can't seem to keep it casual... Any advice on how to stay detached is welcome.