In my everyday life there were many of the traits that would have had me avoiding a person in general, But when i was new to the lifestyle it seemed the common sense of the facts or rather traits were something I ignored , I dont mknow why but I did and it did land me with a person as such .

Thank you Stone for posting it , is a reminder of how a character is a character trait weather in bdsm or vanilla .I surly would have moved slowly if I would have read something as such early on in entering this / our lifestyle and been much more level headed.

And yes subs as well can have the issues , I myself fall under only one but Im working on it , the falling to fast just a lover here ..