Yes, that's what i was referring to. Your question was whether using a rabbit or wand would break your virginity. my personal opinion is that using whatever toys you like, whether internal or external, would not mean that you would be losing your virginity. Your hymen can tear in a myriad of different ways; a torn hymen is not indicative that a woman is no longer a virgin, neither does an intact hymen guarantee that she is (it is possible to stretch the hymen during intercourse without it breaking).
In my opinion, losing your virginity means having sex -with another person-. YMMV.