I'm glad to have helped, if anything I said was ... you know ... actually helpful. I've often thought that some of the stereotype conventions of BDSM make things a bit confusing. Like, punishments being the same kind of things a lot of subs actually crave. It can actually set up a weird sort of situation where a sub who's always good and well behaved ends up being boring for their Dom/me because there's no 'excuse' to punish them. Again, I'm just speaking for myself here really, but if I feel like I have to be a raging brat just get a little time across the knees, it just feels all wrong.

Anyway, I hope things go well between you both!