Quote Originally Posted by chipmunk_ View Post
I agree with every bit of the advice about going slow. However, that advice is so often not heeded by the new sub who's just so eager to experience. I know that I consider myself to be a very sensible and cautious person, but i don't think that i always was when i was taking my first steps into this lifestyle.

Since a brand new sub might not take heed and go slow, i'd suggest another bit of advice:

Build a strong support network. Connect with other subs, especially if you can find some that are willing to mentor you a bit. Try to find a trusted friend or family member that you can share with. Have people that you can ask questions as they arise, friends that will support you when you inevitably hit a bump in the road, and someone who will bring ice cream -- no questions asked -- at 2am (even if it's just a virtual pint of mint chocolate chip). Believe me, it will help.
So very true chipmunk. Great advice.