As far as anal went, i always thought to myself, 'hell no!!!'. When i met my Mistress, she slowly changed my mind and told me if at anytime it felt painful or uncomfortable She would stop.
Last Thursday was the first time we met. (still giddy from the experience lol), She used plenty of lube and made it a very enjoyable and highly erotic experience. i never thought in a million years that i would be one who would enjoy anal sex but i did. Granted it wasn't a penis that was going in there, She used Her fingers which are smaller but whatever goes in there should be clean and lubed up.