My Introduction

[cariad]

We all know, it looks different surfing the web. Most paysites offer extreme torture and brutality, but nobody shows or writes about what this people or actors prove doing this. What can common people or visitors think about BDSM? Sure not the same as we do, this gets me angry.
My meaning of being a master means to get pleasure and satisfaction, satisfying my sub, bringing her just a little over her limits, to please her afterwards the way she needs. As we all know, this limits may be different every day, or even every time.
Respecting safewords and my sub i have got the biggest pleasures of my life, and this is not written in any homepage with pictures and videos showing the most extreme face of BDSM. Where can i find a bigger joy, as to see my sub humiliated by myself? She is suffering all this because she respects me, trust me, maybe loves me and because she knows i will reward her with pleasure (and pain)! Sometimes a pair of clamps are enough, other times there is space for my most perverted fantasy, i dont want do decide the limit, my sub does.

I think we would all agree with the sentiments which you express, but visualistion or fictional description does have its place for many of those involved in BDSM in real life. There is apparently a well argued thread here about fantasy snuff. It is not one I have read, because I find it so distasteful, but I respect the members of this forum and accept that it can have a place in some people's fantasies.

It is my sincere hope that anyone who cares to think about the real world of BDSM goes beyond the images which are commercially presented. If that is all the effort they are prepared to make then they cannot expect to have an informed opinion.

You obviously have a great relationship with your sub well within normal boundaries, and I am delighted for you.

Looking forward to reading more of your posts and thinking about your thoughts.

cariad

[cariad]

Making my introduction... I'm 25, female, shy, submissive... I kind of introduced myself to bondage, just by exploring things over the net when I was in college...but looking back, I can see signs throughout my life that have led me in this direction. I've been exploring different aspects of bondage since college, just experimenting with different feelings, materials, etc.... I'm no expert, but I do enjoy it very much. I hope to explore more... I love being bound and used, and have tremedous amounts of kidnap fantasies. Being taken and turned into a slave, etc.... Anywho. If you'd like to know anymore, let me know I'm a relatively interesting person once you get to know me It just takes me a bit to warm up hehe.

Indigo...

Enjoying what you have already written about yourself and looking forward to the warmed up version!

Just be warned there are a few Doms around here who might have their own ideas about how best to warm you up - grins



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[cariad]

Mods - is there any chance of you removing the spam posts - numbers 2033 - 2035?

Thanks

cariad

[cariad]

Hey A/all-or is the terminology-greetings...I am " told " i have to say a little about myself, and i guess my reason for being here.
I am some one who dreams of being dominated, I am some one who hates to be dominated.......smiles you tell me where i fit in lol, I am here to watch and learn more about who I am and why I feel the things i do- but i was hoping to stay back and read what people are doing in the life styles.
No...for those that think I am looking for a Dom or Domme, when and if i seek , I will do the choosing-just wish to sit and learn...be well Kelly

Passing you a drink as you sit back and take this place in.

Looking forward to hearing about what you see....



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[cariad]

At first I didn't come to writing an introduction here. Because I registered last night at about 2.30 AM and getting more and more difficulty to read what's on that big bright thing....

But I'm a 20 year old guy, living in the Netherlands. And having a dominant tendency, wich I want to explore further. Been surfing the net for quite some years (and yes violated an impressive list of disclamers...). But have (almost) no real life experience in the world of BDSM. My main interest concering that is bondage, but would love to try al sorts of interesting things.

Sadly, I'm still looking for a willing partner (fem sub), but then again, a lot are. Up till now I haven't come much furder than reading stories, watching some clips, and browsing photographes. And an occasional visit to chatrooms and messageboards.

And so, here I am again. Possibly an upcoming regular visitor....

Oh, I do hope you will be a regular visitor, and I have enjoyed seeing you in chat too.

Your honesty and openness will take you to great places - please do share.

In fear of sounding like your mother - you are young to be an active Dom, you might want to try exploring submission as part of your journey. I have heard it said that that is one of the best routes to becoming a great Dom - and the nature of the few people who have done that supports that theory.

Whatever you do - I wish you happiness

Welcome to forums.

cariad

[cariad]

Greetings, I am a new writer to the Library and this is my first
post to the forum, well actually any forum.
As a new writer of stories I want to thank all who have
read them and especially those who commented pro or con.
I*m relieved that most reviews have been favorable as I*m really
new at this.
I agree that the story format of my efforts is terrible.
I*m trying some new softwear and hopfully things will get better.
I*m not very tech savvy.
My reason to join is to thank the site for this opportunity and members
for their interest.
There is a lot to see and learn about on this site and I have just begun.
I would like to visit and explore but post only if I think I can add
something positive to the conversation.
Thanks,
Robin

It is lovely to see you here - if you have not already done so go down the index page to the writing parts of the forum. You might even with join the Writers' Block section which I understand is very supportive.



cariad

[cariad]

Hi guys,

I very occasionally write weird erotic stories-usually of m/m, forcefeeding, encasement and machine domination of man type stuff. Last few stories actually were written in hypnotic language for those that liked their stories to go into their heads for a while.

I myself have a big fat fetish for cars and some boats and can be found elsewhere on the net having sex with them. However that isn't all the stuff I'm interested in :-). I do enjoy reading the more twisted stories I've found on here so far and intend to contribute some of my own work fairly soon.

Thanks for running such a great site folks.

Laughing - well I don't think I will be adding you to my list of favourite authors - but enjoyed meeting you in chat.

Guess I am little conventional when it comes to my love affair with my car too - but I perhaps if I started flirting with it a little there is no telling where we may end up.

Is good to have you here.

cariad

[cariad]

Hello everyone!
Thank you for putting together a professional site. I feel like I can really explore here.
I am here looking to expand my sexuality. I'm starting with online only, but hope to eventually work into real play. I'm still kind of shy and hope a master will find me and guide me forward for a while. Once I know the ropes I'll return the favor to a future newbie.
Thank you again!

Wow - you certainly know how to sell yourself! Is great to have you here, and I hope you will enjoy both receiving from and giving to the site.

- pointing out the pile of neatly rolled ropes in the corner....

cariad

[cariad]

alright... I've decided I've lurked around here long enough and I should be polite and introduce myself. I'm 26, female sub to my wonderful husband/master. I'm pretty shy so I might be kinda quiet. From what I've read so far I think everyone here is just great. the wealth of experience, knowledge and friendliness is just amazing. Thank you for having such a great resource for questions/information and a few laughs!

Smiles - thank you for coming out of lurk mode. You sound a charming person and having taken the plunge and posted a few times I am sure you have found it is quite safe to do so. If you are still feeling a little shy, why not join in some of the fun and games whilst you continue to find your feet here and get to know the faces.



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[cariad]

hi, im new to the site and also new to bdsm, i think i am mostly a sub, but i am learning, slowly. hopefully i can put some of my ideas about stories down on paper, but that maybe miles away yet.
hope to chat to some of you soon,
jess

Don't tell anyone - but we were all new once - both to the site and to bdsm.

Hope you are enjoying finding out more about both, and maybe you would like to think about joining the writers' block where you will be gently helped to put your thoughts onto paper.

Looking forward to seeing you around here - and possibly in chat too.



cariad

[cariad]

i just flew in here a little while ago. And boy are my arms tired. as you can probabily guess i'm new here. but not for long. here is my short intro:
i consider myself a submissive male

Thanks

Well, that is short and to the point, and leaves us in little doubt.

Pleased you landed safely, and if you come over here I will massage your tired arms.



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[IndigoBon]

Hello IndigoBon! Welcome to the forums!

Maddie,

Thanks so much for the welcome

[IndigoBon]

Piercingaze--

Thanks for the warm welcome

[IndigoBon]

Hello all...I could have done this so much more efficiently...However, I haven't had much sleep in the past two days and I'm using that as my excuse. Sooo....thank you to Aussiegirl, Tojo, and Cariad for your thoughtful welcomes...and thank you to all who have welcomed the newcomers It's appreciated and helps me to feel much more at ease. I've been away the past two days and hadn't had a chance to keep up on posts. But it's great to see that there are so many conversations going on What a lively place! I can't wait to read more...

Indigo...

[Smoke's-Slut]

Hi, I am Smokes-Slut,

Sir gave me the name since I am his and my choice is to please him.
I am 48 and a submissive female. I am new to this life style
although I have had a little prior exposure. I joined this forum
with permission from my Sir to learn from others. I am hoping I will
find new things that interest me so I can let Sir know and he can
continue to push me to my limits for his pleasure.

[cariad]

Hi, I am Smokes-Slut,

Sir gave me the name since I am his and my choice is to please him.
I am 48 and a submissive female. I am new to this life style
although I have had a little prior exposure. I joined this forum
with permission from my Sir to learn from others. I am hoping I will
find new things that interest me so I can let Sir know and he can
continue to push me to my limits for his pleasure.

Hello Smokes-Slut and to forums.

No matter how long you have been in the lifestyle I am sure there are things which you can learn in this place, so I am even more sure that you will have no problem.

I am curious about your phrase 'I have had a little prior exposure'. I do hope you are going to put me out of my misery and explain.

Wishing you both an educational and fun time here,

cariad

[Scorpio'sWill2Power]

Greetings to you both IndigoBon and Smokes-Slut.

Always nice to have new people and new thoughts
and exhcanges with those who have just joined us.

All the best in your quest for fun and knowledge on
self and the lifestyle. Thanks for taking the time
to let folks know a little bit about you.

[Aussiegirl1]

Welcome Smoke's-slut,

It is good to see you here and I hope you find it a great place to learn and make new friends.

Aussiegirl

[Smoke's-Slut]

Hello Smokes-Slut and to forums.

No matter how long you have been in the lifestyle I am sure there are things which you can learn in this place, so I am even more sure that you will have no problem.

I am curious about your phrase 'I have had a little prior exposure'. I do hope you are going to put me out of my misery and explain.

Wishing you both an educational and fun time here,

cariad

Yes I will put you out of your misery. With my 1st husband I experienced some bondage, nipple torture, spanking, role play, age play, and sensory deprivation.

[Smoke's-Slut]

Thank you all for welcoming me to the forum.

[dzire2pleeze]

Well, Smoke's Slut we haven't all welcomed you yet..so here's a greeting from me...hello and enjoy what you learn here.

If I've missed extending greetings to anyone else, please accept my most humblest of apologies...my world has been topsy turvy of late...I do welcome you all.

[karnautrahl]

cariad thank for your warm welcome. My range of fetishes extends far beyond the cars-they're just a main focus. Today I was exploring a yahoo group specifically for claustrophilia (that's me as well) and a spinoff for those who like being locked in the trunks of cars as well.

[cariad]

cariad thank for your warm welcome. My range of fetishes extends far beyond the cars-they're just a main focus. Today I was exploring a yahoo group specifically for claustrophilia (that's me as well) and a spinoff for those who like being locked in the trunks of cars as well.

Smiles - since I last posted to you, I have had heart to heart with my car and discovered that not only is he male but is deliciously and sensuously D. Fortunately, unlike a previous car which I drove he has neither M nor s tendencies. I can see him taking me far....

cariad

[MrDom]

Hi everyone ihave missed and welcome to the fun.

MrDom

[darknight666]

Hello everyone.

I feel dirty just for posting on this forum.

Anyway, I'm a lez (I hope this isn't a problem) who has recently discovered the world of BDSM. Lets just say that I'm hooked already, espeically on pain. I think I've found a way to make everything I own hurt.

Anyway, thats me, hope you like her!

[cariad]

Hello everyone.

I feel dirty just for posting on this forum.

Anyway, I'm a lez (I hope this isn't a problem) who has recently discovered the world of BDSM. Lets just say that I'm hooked already, espeically on pain. I think I've found a way to make everything I own hurt.

Anyway, thats me, hope you like her!

Yes we do, and we hope she likes us!

A little concerned that you find us dirty, we do vacuum around everyday, and the dungeons are sanitised after each use, but I will have a word with the domestic staff to make sure there has been no slippage.

You will find people with all flavours of sexuality her, and certainly other lesbians, but first and foremost we are real people, and I take pleasure in welcoming you into our 'home'.

I hope you enjoy being here, explore, post, be prepared to meet some lovely people. Oh and there is a serious risk you may also soon be hooked on this place.

cariad

[Aussiegirl1]

Welcome darknight,

You are very wlecome here. Being new to BDSM, this is a great place to learn, have fun and make new friends.

Enjoy
Aussiegirl

[Silke]

Hiya darknight and to the dirty old site... Hope you'll have fun around here...

[maddie]

Hello darknight! Welcome to the forums! I think you'll like it here. There's a wide variety of people with a broad range of experiences.

[pinkee]

well, y'alll seem like nice ppl; i'm happy to be here & look forward to getting to know the site. pinkee