I tend to do anal occasionally as past experiences soured me on the matter but if my love wants to I will indulge but only when it is good for her
That's a very Decent and compassionately-proper way! I applaud that thinking! Some males, they don't ask as they think it'll be a fun 'surprise'. Our Dam had an experience like that, and the male didn't enjoy her response which caused him to flee for his life.