My Introduction

[Shellyfemme]

Originally posted by dancingscorpion
[B]I'm female, 42, pic can be seen in yahoo profiles (dancingscorpion)

Welcome always glad to have another person come abord. (nice pic on yahoo too )

[fetish101]

I've been a "lurker" here for quite some time now, and only this month decided to become a member. I've been interested in bdsm for about 2 years now, basically ever since I really started to surf the internet.

I'm 19 years old and currently in 2nd year university. I have a girlfriend who I have been dating for 1 1/2 years who is unfortunately 100% "vanilla" and who I don't believe will ever warm up to the idea of bondage, power exchange or anything of that nature. I brought up the topic a few times, but was met with disdain for the whole idea.

I do love her though, and as such will remain with her even though she does not share my fetish for this sort of activity. So, here I am, an observer in this forum that reads the posts of people actually living "in the scene of bdsm" with envy.

haha, it's strange, but after lurking for so long, I actually feel like I know alot of you, especially people like TourGuide, RedEva, Kittenfemme, Fox and all the others that post here on a regular basis. It's my intent from now on to post on a regular basis, although it is difficult to join a conversation on bdsm when really I don't have any real life experience on the subject other than what I read/see on the internet. Oh well, I guess I'll try.

[Curtis]

No reason not to try. I haven't let it stop me!

[Jane SC]

Hello there...................

I thought I had better just say "Hello" to everyone here, although I joined last week and have posted on several other threads since then, and met several very nice members, some through the Chat Room.

I am a 23 year-old subbie, owned by Mark who occasionally looks in here, and I live in Oxford (UK). My name IS Jane, and I sorta found this forum by accident when I was looking for a story to download for my owner. I am very glad that I did as I have so much enjoyed reading your postings, and meeting other members. I can see that I am going to gain a great deal from being a member here.

Just briefly, I first recognised my masochism in my teens, learnt about the D/s lifestyle a bit later and was first owned when I was 17. I stayed with that owner for two and a half years until he left the UK by which time I was at university. There I met Mark and it did not take him long to recognise exactly what I am and to make me his possession. We lived together for over two years but now, temporarily, we are apart for most of the working week, but ALWAYS get together at weekends and sometimes midweek as well. I am far from being a perfect sub and he is very demanding. But I adore him and this lifestyle.

Well, that's me......................... Hope I get to meeting a lot more of you in the days and months to come.

Love, Jane.

[GaryWilcox]

Waves to CheyGirl... welcome to the forum!

Since you're new here and lurking, I thought I'd say hio and hopefully you'll come across this message while peeking.

Welcome to the forum-- don't be shy! Feel free to ask for directions if you get lost.

Here's a little something for you-- a story by Kallie Thomas called THE LONG ROAD HOME. Offering it because the protagonist is named Cheyenne. Please note the story codes before reading, Kallie does some very disturbing writing.

[vinsint]

Originally posted by write4jetc
Everytime I login, there is a new member that has joined.

<peering around in the dark corners>Where are you? Please, join in, we won't hurt you - well, unless you want us to, that is! And even then, you have to beg first.

Tell us who you are, where you are, your special interests and delights - you know, anything.

And if you're a sub, looking for an on-line MIstress, let me know ...

I am me, who goes by vinsint here. I'm also here...but to be specific, Texas. I do enjoy being hurt, but for now I'm still lurking about and soaking it in.

I try to flip flop around, but I'm mostly sub, thanks for the offer, but one isn't desired. I'm currently still going down the road accepting who I am, but years of repressing denial and unacceptance make the walk pretty damn slow.

Hmm. what else to say. Someone I know showed me the site, I got lost late last night reading a few of the stories, then realized my peculiar taste were not uncommon when I hit the forums.

That's all I got to say for now...

[Curtis]

It took seeing your Avatar five times before I got it --

"Vincent van Dog"

We need more posters with a sense of humor.

[vinsint]

* jaw drops *

whoah. You are good.

[Deepflow]

Hi, this is another new member just posting my first here.

Im a 19 year old dom from England but have done very little/nothing in the way of actual physical expression of my desires. This is mainly because i have never really been in contact with any friends who shared my passions who i could explore them with. Im also slightly too cowardly to try anything on my own.

Im very open about the whole thing though, and my close friends all know im into vague "kinky dominating stuff", but thats about it. And if i ever go into much more detail or get any heavier i sometimes get disbelief as i am far too much of a harmless acting good natured person in real life. I guess i just joined these forums as a first step to eventually be able to express myself. lets hope it all goes well eh?

[BaasGeert]

Hi everyone,
I've become a member two weeks ago, but it is till now before i saw this thread...oops :
I'm BaasGeert , a 29 year old dominant male from Belgium. I have a sub : subsletkatrien. We are rather new at D/s , but we had a vanilla relation for over 10 years before "the change"..:-)
She willingly has le tme enslav eher, and now she is happy about her new life. she just loves it and is a born slut..:-)

I posted in some other threads also, and also with pictures..:-)

[GaryWilcox]

That's right-- you never did get a formal welcome, did you?

Welcome to the forum, Baas!

[banderson]

OK, I'm game. I've been reading stories here for more than a year and have even posted a couple, so it's probably time to introduce myself.

I'm a Dom (without a sub currently, but I'm working on it) living in the Midwest. I write erotic romance and BDSM books under the name J.W. McKenna at two e-book pubs.

I enjoy the stories about control, spankings, humiliation (but in a sexy way), piercings, and some kidnapping themes. But I'll read just about any well-written story, such as by Powerone, Coutre, Parker and a few others.

banderson

[Tiny45]

I've been lurking here for maybe a year or two, (because of my age i'll leave that maybe up to you).


I joined because I saw a post in the Personals forum which looked far too good to be true. It was, and the relationship it spawned has been interesting to say the least. A wonderful learning experience, but sadly destined to stay online.

I live in bumfuck NOWHERE virginia, (i'll give you a hint: its a 50 minute drive to delaware), not much hope of any real scene around here.

I go to uni in louisana though, around alexandria. When I get back down there from winter break i'm going to poke around and see if there is any activity of the sort I require.

I realized that I 'liked' bdsm as a child, any sorts of cops and robbers or cowboys and indians that involved hostages


Did not realize until halfway through highschool that it was something I couldnt get away from. Several vanilla relationships got me to realize that I needed a bit more 'commitment' from my girlfriends.


So, to cut to the point:

I'm 19, dominant, freshly comfortable with who I am, and ready to start down whichever roads this lifestyle may take me down.

I may or may not post, being that I dont have much experience I probably will not have much to say on certain matters....

My parents probably think I'm gay, havent had a girlfriend since I was 17.... I wonder, would the truth be more of a shock to them? :P


(to clarify: I'm not gay, I got out of my last vanilla relationship as a highschool snot, realizing exactly WHY it did not work out. Spent the better part of two years figuring out how to deal with the fact that I was what I previously considered to be some sort of headcase 'sexual deviant'. fuckit, too late to change now :P)

[Finding_Fantasy]

Welcome to the library!

First off, please do not be afraid to post. This site is not only for those if us that know a thing or two about BDSM but it is also for those that don't. Feel free to ask as many questions as you like. There is usually one or two peole who have the answers you are looking for.

I hope you like it here.

[§inMa§†er]

Just floatin through and wavin as a newbie around here, Waves

[redEva]

Mmmmmmmm, new, scrumptious, lickable, sinful-thought arousing avatar….

What I meant to say: “Welcome and hope you enjoy our company” *grin*

[§inMa§†er]

Thank you Eva, Great web page you have as well

[Finding_Fantasy]

Hello, SinMaster. Welcome to the Libaray. I hope you feel at home here.

[§inMa§†er]

Thank you, I have been very impressed with this board and the friendly atmosphere *S*

[sinful dream]

Greetings A/all, I am new here. Nice board you have here.

[§inMa§†er]

Nice sub AV sinful

[sinful dream]

Thank You Sin Master Sir *smiles* Very nice av you have also Sir.

[§inMa§†er]

Thank you *S*

[GaryWilcox]

Welcome to the forum, Sinful, and happy (belated) birthday!

[sinful dream]

Thank You Gary Sir. Thank you also for the birthday wishes. *smiles*

[Glibc]

Hi all,

I'm new to these forums. A few words about myself - in no particular order:

- I'm male, 32 (soon 33) and single. I work with computers and I also play music and do some sports from time to time. I live in Denmark.

- I'm very interested in BDSM, but sadly I've never tried very much. I've never found a partner, and to be completely honest I haven't really searched that much. Until now - registering here is a big first step for me. Who knows what I'll do next?

- I've spend a lot of time on the net over the years, reading stories and looking at pictures. I feel I know a whole lot about BDSM, eventhough I've only tried self-bondage. And that hasn't been very succesful either, but I know the basics of tying and releasing. And a little more than that I'd like to think.

- I usually prefer the terms top/bottom to master/slave which are a bit over the top. I'm definately a switch, I find both the top and bottom role quite nice, but I really don't know which I like most, and if I could stay in one role all the time. I see BDSM as roleplay in most situations and I believe I know and can play both roles.

- I've read a lot of the stories (probably most) on bdsmlibrary.com. I can usually find something wrong with a given story. Some of my pet peeves are: writers who clearly haven't tried that thing they're writing about and describing it wrong. Another is the idea that any woman will become a mindless slave after being tied up and denied orgasms for a day or two. I just re-read "Jesse's Birthday by Captured" - that's a pretty good story with only a few weak points.

- As I said I've never really talked to anybody about my feelings for BDSM. But I think it's about time I do something about that. I'll start actively looking for a like-minded partner, hard as she may be to find. I've also written a small message in "personals", and I'll start looking for danish websites. Wish me luck!

- The 2.6 kernel is stable! That wasn't about me, but important nonetheless.

[redEva]

Welcome Glibc,

Thank you for your extensive introduction, and i hope to see you around. Relax and enjoy

[Darkmind]

Greetings to A/all

[redEva]

Welcome Darkmind

good to have new blood around

[restraint]

Hello A/all.
New to the forum and thought i should introduce myself.

i'm m-sub, 35, and new to the board. Congratulations to the M/moderators as it looks like a great gathering.....excellent to see such a thriving community online.

i tend to be a hardcore submissive, eager to engage a term of servitude as my next challenge....but am encountering the obvious difficulties meeting Others who are serious.....as opposed the the new generation of internet players

Looking forward to participating and meeting likeminded P/people