Advice on finding a Dom?

[just_ine]

Be honest with yourself when you are determining what you want. ‘What you want’ is another one of those ever-evolving things that people do well to continually evaluate.

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Being honest first with yourself. But be very clear in your honesty.

All the while being open-minded enough to realise that what you look for and what you get might not be the very same thing, but 'good-enough' often turn out to be 'better-than-perfect'.

j