I went from online to beeing married to the one I did online with and I trust my sixth sense concerning the people I talk to. Nevertheless I have met such a black sheep before as well. It rattles your bones, makes you feel insecure and you no longer trust your own ability to judge a persons character..

It took me almost a year to reveal more about me than my first name to my now husband and while I always was honest with him I told him to back off whenever he asked something that could in any way reveal my Identity. When he had not pushed me for a year and been understanding and it was still a great friendship with a lot of time invested I felt more secure. we went from me taking headless photos to camming and calling and after another 6 month met r/l for the first time in a cafe directly in front of a police station, in a city neither of us lived in with me having my friend as a backup who called me several times to check in and would have sent in the cavalery if I had not answered.
For me this was lucky, but there are black sheep. Genuine contacts donŽt push you. ever. and they will easily accept if thereŽs information youŽre not comfortable giving out.
Take it slow, tell your contact what you went through and if the connection is as real as you believe heŽll be understanding. Take your time. Rather safe than sorry?
IŽm glad that youŽre back here and find again what you once lost. I hope for you that youŽll find your security back and that everything will be allright once again.

Feel free to pm me if you need someone to comiserate

Good luck!

Deigja