Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[malson]

Thought I should say hi here too.

I am mid twenties new to this area and keen to find a mistress for a casual introduction to this, exciting world. I would love to serve and please and be punished if need be.

[lurchmartin]

hey im new to this. and im looking for a mistress for online fun first email me at lurchmartin88@yahoo.com

[devilishsub]

Hi I'm new, I've been involved with my boyfriend/Master for the past 2 years and things have moved from vanilla to kinky. I'm always looking for new ways to please, and am generally looking to learn new things to introduce into my relationship. My Master and I both are looking to take things slow and he's a little timid when it comes to introducing new things; he's often said that he doesn't want to push me too far. Which leaves this sub prowling the internet for inspiration. I do want to avoid topping from the bottom, so I'm in a bit of a pickle. I'm glad I found these forums to help out. I look forward to getting to know all of you!

[Guest102708b]

My name is Twisted Beauty...TB for short. I am 32. I have been submissive before to my exhusband YEARS ago and have, since leaving him, become the dominant one when I was trying to find myself as a person. I am now sub to my boyfriend of two years when it dawned on me, after pretty much having a breakdown, that I am to be his slave and he to be my Sir. He is new to the lifestyle and we are actively learning together. I am happy to be his humble and willing obedient slave.

[malesub666]

hello joined to know ive been a sub or curious should i say for as long as i can remember stuck in a vanialla marriage and dont know what to do

[dark0slave]

Greetings All,
Unowned slave from Delhi,India.
Strive to learn more and more, and ramble less and less.
Regards,
Jimmy.

[stars_and_roses]

I'm stars and roses, but you can just call me stars. I'm very new to BDSM, and I joined this site to listen, learn, and reconcile my mind to the fact that real people do all the things I've read about. My boyfriend is game to try dominating me, but he's a little hesitant to push me. He also doesn't always want to be the dominant one, which doesn't work well at all because I definitely can't take that role. Which is really odd because in my 'normal' life, I always take charge of everything - school projects, decorating, paper work, everything except what happens sexually. Then it just drops.

[WorldTraveller]

Hi All

I cannot wait to get to know everyone a little more and exploring this part of my life more

[Zarine13]

Hi all, I’m a 35 year old woman, and I’m still trying to find myself. In my first post here I labeled myself as a sub, but I’m not sure I want to do that again. I know I’m not a Domme, but I don’t quite want to give myself a label yet, until I know myself better.

I was one of those who’s Barbies used to get tied up and raped when I was a kid. So this has been in my blood for a long time. When I was in my late 20s I had a boyfriend that was also interested in the lifestyle, and we explored it a little together, bondage, some light spanking, and things like that. I LOVED it.

That relationship ended and I met the man I am with now. We have been together for almost 8 years. Our relationship was very vanilla even though I tried to get him to see my way of looking at things. That relationship is coming to an end now. I have spent so much time being a wife and a mother that now it’s time to find me again.

I have a very aggressive personality, but when it comes to the bedroom/playtime, I want to be directed, to give up that aggressiveness. I’ve learned a lot in the past couple weeks, just reading the posts here. I hope to learn a lot more as time goes on.

[sarahuk]

Hello

I joined here a couple of weeks ago but must admit have been reading everyones posts rather than joining in. I think I am a sub, as I don't feel I could take control of a situation. Even th thought of someone giving me orders excites me. I am just trying to learn more about it before I actually act upon anything at the moment.

[jeanne]

Welcome to all the submissives who have introduced themselves recently. I hope you find what you are seeking here.

[DaddysBadPrincess]

Greetings to all my fellow and sister subs. i am known here and to my Daddy as DaddysBadPrincess, or DBP if you desire. i am 39 and have been intrigued with BDSM for a number of years, always knowing deep in my heart that i was a sub. i never felt i was safe enough with whatever partner i was with to leave the "vanilla" world so kept it secreted away, waiting quietly for my Daddy to arrive. Arrived at long last, He has, and is joining me here to oversee my education. He is called DaddyJim and i love Him with my whole being, wishing only to fulfill His every desire of me. i now humbly study at the feet of any who might guide me in the ways princess may please her Daddy.

[DaddyJim]

Greetings to all my fellow and sister subs. i am known here and to my Daddy as DaddysBadPrincess, or DBP if you desire. i am 39 and have been intrigued with BDSM for a number of years, always knowing deep in my heart that i was a sub. i never felt i was safe enough with whatever partner i was with to leave the "vanilla" world so kept it secreted away, waiting quietly for my Daddy to arrive. Arrived at long last, He has, and is joining me here to oversee my education. He is called DaddyJim and i love Him with my whole being, wishing only to fulfill His every desire of me. i now humbly study at the feet of any who might guide me in the ways princess may please her Daddy.

Princess, Daddy has been closely following your determination and progress in your latest endeavors; I want you to know that you have pleased Daddy...there is a reward waiting for you.

Daddy loves you, Princess.

[slave_peter]

im sub have been 4 as long as i can remember im now a owned slave
im owned and the property of Mistress Tanya

[n4trbl]

hi everyone! i am the proud slave owned by innamoramento. pretty new to this scene. very eager and willing to learn anything and everything in order to better serve my owner. am very thankful for the strong hand of my master.

[fourmaggie]

Hi everyone... I am Maggie and I am new to the scene of submission and well so is my Master(Poetguy1979)we met and my eyes just follows him where ever he goes.....I adore this man and so want to please him in every way possible....Master has given me his collar and very I'm much devoted to him and him alone.....yes its intense and we have only been doing this for a short time but wow.....I so want to be his submissive slut in every way possible.....

[cattus9]

Hi,

-waves-

I'm 19 and currently in a relationship with the most amazing man, but hoping it to get more kinky than it already is, after 2 years together I know he's a Dom and hopefully he'll be on this forum someday

[adreena]

Hi all! Adreena here ... totally no where close to my name at all ... just part of a band that I appreciate.

Anyways, I know I'm submissive, but am too new to understand yet just how far it goes. Maybe I'm a slave and I just don't know it yet!

Hoping to learn and be able to participate in as much as possible here.

[Guest1231008]

Hi IM patheticslave11. Ive only started to get intot he whole bdsm scene. i have alot to learn and look forward to it. I have only served one dom before and it didnt last long as she said she no longer had intrest in it. Im hoping to find a mistress to serve online who will teach me alot.

[BryansGrrrl]

Hello all. My story is almost identical to Zarine's, except I have not been in a D/s relationship before.

I am 34 and owned by Lisais mine. We began our relationship back in April of this year as friends, and have fallen in love. He is helping me to learn about myself and explore this side of me.

[Tleanne5664]

Hello. I think I have always known that I am a sub. I am in what started as a vanilla relationship that is evolving into D/s rather quickly. Nothing excites me more than to put myself in his control. Since most of my "Vanilla Time" is spent controlling others or myself; being ordered to my knees is my favorite part of the day.
I am 25, and still learning the in/outs of BDSM. OMG! I am so excited!

[fourmaggie]

well hi, I am Maggie and well I am a submissive Canadian girl who is at her prime in her life.....I am a widow of 7 years coming in March 2009 and have 2 children by him....I have come out of the closet and well I did have a Master that took over rite where my hubby left off....he released me...so that I am honoured to have some experience in some way (not alot but some...) my life is awesome now that the fog has lifted and well I never want to go to that place again for a long time.......I am old fashion I guess u can say but that is in my vanilla life....I am slowly coming out but need guidence form my friends and well not afraid to ask.......my family and friends are what matter.....and this life is slowly coming into my vanilla life ( love it!)......I love all the learning and converstions and well I love to GROW in mind and spirit......I do volunteer work for Friends of Recovery and well it is a "drug and alcohol free envoirnment" and well it keeps me on track......please email me and well lets chat....thanks for reading....

[n4trbl]

hello everyone....i am fairly new to the scene but have been lucky enough to have been allowed to be educated in the life of D/s by Innamoramento. What luck!!! no bad experience as others have previously stated. would still love to learn ways to better please my master.

[yama]

I have just joined. I am Yama, a girl of 19, with strong submissive inclinations. I had been weaving masochist daydreams even before I learned that there was such a thing as masochism. I didn't mentioned them to anybody, until I made friends with Lila, a girl about my age, with whom I had intimate talks which revealed that she was willing to humiliate and punish me. And so she has been doing since more than a year now, and I love it very much. She enjoys it, too.

We are not part of the BDSM subculture, what I know about it I learned online. I find that our dom/sub relationship differs strongly from the "official" forms. I never addressed Lila as "Mistress" and she doesn't consider me her slave. She doesn't want to control my whole life. I don't wear a collar. What she enjoys is humiliating and punishing me, and she makes a good job of it, even if she does it with a sweet mocking laugh and talks to me all the time as to a good friend. She handles the whip well, my body is rarely without welts, she spits into my mouth and makes me drink of the water she soaked her feet in. I am delighted to endure it and I laugh with her, except when I am moaning and screaming under her strokes. She is often compelled to tie and gag me. It has never occurred to us to use any safeword, I simply trust her. We learned to satisfy each other sexually, even is the essence of our relationship isn't that but my humiliation. I obey her, of course, and I would obey her is she wanted to control me much more. However, I don't feel a slave and I think I don't need that feeling.

It doesn't mean that I reject more humiliation. You are free to call me any degrading name, I will thank you. And you are free to give me a virtual slap or kick any time, I will remain meek and respectful. I don't feel a slave but I am ready to be an online slave if somebody wants me to. Lila isn't jealous at all. She has my body to torture whenever she wants to.

Thank you for your kind attention.

Humbly

Yama

[Its_Cleo]

Hi all, i am a sub and sort of new to the lifestyle. For the last few years i read a lot of bdsm fiction, always longing for more, to connect with someone and learn how to be a sub, not just read about it.

Funny thing is, in my day to day life i am always focussed on being in control...it's exhausting though. i long to let that go, to find a dom and submit completely and know that i am pleasing him in doing so.

i have a lot to learn first though i think and i'm glad to be here

[yama]

It doesn't mean that I reject more humiliation. You are free to call me any degrading name, I will thank you. And you are free to give me a virtual slap or kick any time, I will remain meek and respectful. I don't feel a slave but I am ready to be an online slave if somebody wants me to. Lila isn't jealous at all. She has my body to torture whenever she wants to.

Please let me correct myself. I am ready to be an online slave only
for an occasion. This very morning a gentleman was so kind as
to treat me as his slave, my pussy and my nipples are still sore with
his treatment. :-) I subject myself happily to such treatment any
possible time, but I can't offer myself for a lasting relationship.
I go away for Christmas and New Year, and after that I move in a
flat where I won't have a computer. Buying one from my salary
is a thing which will come only later.

Thank you if you took the time to read this.

[subbie7]

Hey I'm subbie7.
I'm totally new at this. I've never had a real relationship with a Dom before, and only a really awkward set of conversations with one on the internet. I don't know where to go and what to do and I'm terribly lost. One day I want to have a Dom, I want to submit and be owned and loved...but I don't think that I ever will. Sorry, I have no self confidence and never have.

[jeanne]

Welcome to all the new members. I hope you find what you need here.

[unmastered]

Hello Everyone:

My name is unmastered( enough said hmmm?) I have allways known I was a sub from the very begining. Its hard to get what you really desire when you were so many hats. I have allways been a leader in school, business, friends so men just thought it natural and was at ease when i led them in other areas. It was just a means to get them to do or say what I really needed for myself( can anyone understand what I mean). You would have thought that one of them wanted to take me down a peg or two...lol In the end I always left due to lack of respect for them. I never wanted a man I could control even though they made it easy.

I have had a Dom( sort of) in the past,but I was not ready for his caliber of training although we were really good friends( with him it was and still is all-or-nothing).

There is a lot I do not know but am very eager to learn.

I am too old to cont. to settle for anything else than complete bliss and surrender as a woman.

Its unfortunate for others in my life.... I really hope that they can keep up...lol

unmastered

[wolf101]

Hello all. i am lindsey and i am just lost, i dont know what to do, where to go. i am not happy being free and i am not in the proper frame of mind to submit, assuming that Anyone would want me. i have not the strength to be free nor the strength to submit as my heart wish me to. i was happy as a slave but now know that i am unable to be one. This doesnt mean that i am not at heart a slave, just that i am not able to be one. All i long for is to wear the collar of my Mistress and to serve Her. i could use some one to talk to, advice, anything would help.

Thank you for your time lindsey