Submissive vs. slave

[myri_SN]

I'm just a public school educated Dom and I am still learning and probable much of the knolage that works into and though the D/s lifestyle I havent learned. And yes some of it from Victoean times, and the middle adges but you did lose me there sarry. Also for some reason I cant read what is put up when it put in red on my computer screen some times. Some times and plases I can and so I can't. Here I can't. I wasn't able to read wht you said till I went to the responce section. Don.

just some herbal tablets to calm you down again, sowwy

[allalone46]

just some herbal tablets to calm you down again, sowwy

Thats a better color, and I don't tak herbal tablets . Just the color on this screen. Sarry for using the web. Back to the reason for it. On the sick person the was describe that got this started. He isn't one of use, and it sound like when he gets cought he is going to use all of use in the D/s lifestyle to justify himself and what he does. that said I do hope he gets cought. he is just abusing woman. If you wander what the difference is between what we do and abuse. Well what is decribed about him is one big difference.

[myri_SN]

Thats a better color, and I don't tak herbal tablets . Just the color on this screen. Sarry for using the web. Back to the reason for it. On the sick person the was describe that got this started. He isn't one of use, and it sound like when he gets cought he is going to use all of use in the D/s lifestyle to justify himself and what he does. that said I do hope he gets cought. he is just abusing woman. If you wander what the difference is between what we do and abuse. Well what is decribed about him is one big difference.

i know hence he pissed me off quite a bit

[allalone46]

i know hence he pissed me off quite a bit

Want to know what pissis me off. He did! I just would like to get him some place and let him know what he has been doing to others. But than I would lower myself down to his leval. But with people like him I would love to do to him what I would never do to a sub or slave. And yes I do know how to do it, and I would never do that to a sub or slave but to a sub human like him I am tempted. But like I said I am not going to lower myself down to his leval.

[slavelucy]

i think myri agrees with you allalone, i think that was the point in her bringing it up.

Sounds to me like that guy is making up a load of crap anyway, i very much doubt he practices any of the drivel he yaps on about...i certainly hope so anyway.

In terms of the subject, i agree with TG, blanket terms, although, not ideal, are necessary in Ds relationships, because to seperate everyone out, in accordance with a million definitions and preferences, would be ridiculously complicated and would lead to Ds quietism!

sl

[allalone46]

Probable spelled that wrong but here goes. What that thing is doing doesn't follow the gide lines, even if what we do can be just about any line you can think. Know mater what thouse same three things are always the same. Safe, Sane, and Consentule. And what he is doing isn't and never will be. Even if one of the three is followed the othr two arn't . And I would find that any are.

Well, yes, i agree...in fact, i think everyone agree's, the guy is clearly a complete loser and i don't know why we're wasting any more valauble thread space or time on him, having already established he's completely wrong.

sl

[Curtis]

Okay, it's time for me to step on my dick, here.

It's my belief that Tourguide's purpose in starting this thread, along with the "Dominant or Master" thread and some others, is to help newer or more confused/unsettled Forum denizens to define(?) themselves, so that they can be be more comfortable with themselves (meaning their self-image).

That's why these three or four threads were placed in Knowledge Base, rather than BDSM Life or General Talk. They're teaching pieces for people who haven't yet solidified their thinking, not an attempt to dictate absolute definitions to people who've already defined themselves.

They're also an attempt to place a common ground of understanding under people who might someday find themselves in a social situation and be faced with strangers using these terms. In such a case, it would be good if everyone was working from a common terminology.

I run into this frequently on the Internet in a non-BDSM context. When e-mailing with Aussies, Brits and English-as-a-second-languagers, it's always good to know that they don't mean the same thing by 'boot' or 'bonnet' that us'ns do, and it's polite to use their definitions (when you can remember).

And this brings us neatly 'round to the "Respect" thread that Dslave began, located elsewhere in Knowledge Base.

(If I misinterpreted Tourguide's intent, I'm sure he'll pop by in 'alf a mo' and set me straight.)