My Introduction

[sweetplymate]

finally got an account that will allow me to stay logged on long enough to post i'm new to the scene, my master led me to this board as a place for me to get information and learn as well as ask questions and the such. although i have read in a lot of the fem/sub posts who are also new to the scene about struggling with their new found identities in life, i find myself falling rather comfortably into mine...i finally feel like me so to speak and am happier than i have ever been. not to say there arent challenges ahead for me but i look forward to them as i feel without a challenge of some sort, no matter what your role, life would get quite dull and boring. i am of an old school mindset that any relationship should be passionate and symbiotic and i have finally found one that is....where i am an equal partner and contributor. i look forward to reading lots and getting ideas from you all...feel free to say hi...i'm quite friendly and would enjoy the conversation!

[myri_SN]

i have been reading the stories on this site for years, had a username once but can't remember the password it seems as i dont manage to log in anymore. now i tried to read an article on the dungeons and it said i need to log in. so i signed up again. now i can access the forums but still not the dungeons, keeps asking me to log in over and over agin so i have given up for now.

meow

oh and by the way am a 27 year old masochistic sub/slave and painslut (did i really say that) or whatever (rather think i am me and leave others to figure out the rest) from the UK.
P.S. the avi isn't me but the pic on profile is.

[Lord Douche]

oh and by the way am a 27 year old masochistic sub/slave and painslut (did i really say that) or whatever (rather think i am me and leave others to figure out the rest) from the UK.
P.S. the avi isn't me but the pic on profile is.

Welcome to the forum, myri_SN! I love your avatar Very pretty.
LD

[primal sage]

I am new to this site and I would like to say that it is wonderful being in a community with like minded individuals. I look forward to doing a lot of reading and learning as well as posting some of my ideas and experiences.

[Slick]

I suppose a straight forward albeit brief intro is appropriate. I’ve been in a Dom for 20 years and I’m good at what I do. No games or part time roles. I am located in the southeastern USA and I’m a biker. If there are any particulars you would like to know, ask. As mentioned, I’m very straight forward.

I came upon this forum quite by accident, read a few of the threads and posts and thought I might join some of the conversations. Most of the posts seem to come from genuine Dom/subs so, I thought; why not give it a shot. This is the first and subsequently only forum to which I belong so hopefully, something productive will come for Me and as maybe others as well.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Slick

[julie les]

I have just discovered this wonderful site and am having a great deal of fun reading the posts.

However my real tastes lay in the world of humiliation. I adore the thought of being made to humiliate myself in public. May be a better word would be dares. The thought of playing watersport, scat or other such humiliation is erotic to the extreme.

I also have one further desire in these thoughts, and that the person to inflict these delight on me is of my own sex. I have never had the courage to pursue these thoughts, but maybe somewhere in here is a female dom, who would be willing to take me under her on line wing?


If you are out there miss, then I am yours in mind and soul

Julie

a new subbie

[Driveslikeagirl]

I have read this site for quite a while now. Best stories anywhere! However, I've never even tried to broach the subject of my interest in BDSM with anyone in real life, let alone gained any experience. Maybe someday I'll find a guy who will allow me to "test the waters" and see if I'd enjoy being a sub in real life as much as I enjoy reading about being a sub!

In the meantime, thanks to everyone on this forum who seem so nice and welcoming. And a huge thanks to all of the authors who submit stories on this site!

[slavelucy]

I have read this site for quite a while now. Best stories anywhere! However, I've never even tried to broach the subject of my interest in BDSM with anyone in real life, let alone gained any experience. Maybe someday I'll find a guy who will allow me to "test the waters" and see if I'd enjoy being a sub in real life as much as I enjoy reading about being a sub!

In the meantime, thanks to everyone on this forum who seem so nice and welcoming. And a huge thanks to all of the authors who submit stories on this site!

What a nice first post!

i'm sure all the writers very much appreciate your kind words.

Welcome to the forums, look forward to seeing you around.

sl

[Atrophine]

i've been cross dressing since 6th grade or so.
a few years later for one reason or another i threw on a dress and tied myself in a very clever way to the clothes line in my (my parents) backyard. something slipped and i lost control and was then suspended upside down, dangling helplessly. i have no idea how, but i came.
that's the short history of my discovery of ME

im 22 and submissive and pretty shy (and it took me since i signed up to actually get to posting this! )

anyways... i started doing drugs heavily around the time i realized that being TG was not 'normal', and sedated myself for many years.
now suddenly i cant touch my favorite drugs without being thrown into a bad trip, and without my dissociatives to keep my mind regulated empty and neutral, i'm forced to deal with my perversity and (oh no!) feelings and such the best way i know how. to dive right into the stuff face first.

im a little less than 6 feet tall, long blond hair that i love to keep messy which goes down to around my mid back (unless it's tied up of course!), skinny as hell (only 120 pounds!) with blue or green eyes (depends on my mood i think hehe)... also i have chicken legs :\

oh, and im afraid of water for some reason lol.

...


HI!

[SheepishJaina]

Howdy yall. 22 year old Sub Female here from PA. I've been lurking around this site for quite a long time now, reading stories and forums. I finally decided to sign up so that I can actually reply to some of the more interesting posts Ive been reading. I wanted to applaud everyone for being so open, nice, and helpful here. I've found answers to some of what I feel are some really embarrassing things (gotta love being shy). You'll notice that I can't spell.. so please forgive me. lol

oh, btw.. Tourguide.. when did you change your icon and signature? the new one is creepy... wheres Brain gone to?!?

[ella]

Yes, I would like to introduce myself since I am a new member. I have joined because I was not able to find many things that attract and excite me in real life. I am not going to give too many details now, but although I have had a few long term relationships (as well as a couple of short-term ones) I have never met a man or a woman who would take me on a journey that I wanted. I have always been open and straightforward about what I like and although a couple of times I had been indulged, I still felt that it was done more as a favour, not for mutual enjoyment.
So here I am right now - I guess trying to find more about myself to begin with, and to meet people that share similar tastes. I suppose I would like to meet somebody - a dominant sensual man or woman - who will help me explore my sexuality on-line first with a possibility of a personal meeting. \
Ella is not my real name, of course, but it will have to do now. I am a young woman - petite, brunette, of slavic origin. I am attractive. I would offer more details if anybody would like to know more...

[SirW]

I have never met a man or a woman who would take me on a journey that I wanted. I have always been open and straightforward about what I like and although a couple of times I had been indulged, I still felt that it was done more as a favour, not for mutual enjoyment.
So here I am right now - I guess trying to find more about myself to begin with, and to meet people that share similar tastes. I suppose I would like to meet somebody - a dominant sensual man or woman - who will help me explore my sexuality on-line first with a possibility of a personal meeting.

What is usually the most important step in any journey is the First one. So congratulations on doing that. Sometimes the longest and possibly most fulfilling journeys start with one simple step.

Your's is a journey of discovery. There are many paths available to one in the journey. At the end of the journey is the discovery of your submissive soul. What you seem to be asking for is a Dominant who will guide you in this journey. There isn’t a set speed or even specific markers that need to be met. The journey usually consists of wonderful times and also times when you and your D/s partner need to slow down and talk about what might have misfired. Talking about everything and allowing questions on all things is really the most important quality in a Training Dominant.
D/s is actually all in the mind. You don’t need any toys, chains, whips or anything else but the mind set and will to Dominate or submit. What you do need is the willingness, and eagerness to explore this lifestyle whether beginning on-line or in real life.
One last point, you mentioned your attractiveness. While that might be good or bad in some relationships, in a D/s one it actually doesn’t matter. What is important is the deepness of your conviction in discovering your submissive soul. The “beauty” in that is immeasurable. Feel free to either post here or email me (check my profile for the address), if you wish to discuss this a bit more. Good luck in your journey.

SirW

[herMaster4ever]

Hello all,

I'm also a new member, having been encouraged to join by my wonderful, loving, perfect companion and submissive, onlyforhim4ever. We are a real-life, nearly 24/7 couple who love each other more than either of us ever thought was possible. Yes -- we both got extremely lucky! She is the most wonderful woman I have ever met, and her submission to me is the greatest gift she could possibly have given me.

We hope that will be both be positive, contributing members of this forum!

- Warren

[Frito]

Me? Hardly worth mentioning.

I am an American who lives in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. I am only able to log onto this site thanks to an illegal satellite ISP. (Saudi Arabia censors the net.)

As of last month, I am no longer in a relationship. (Hurts like a bear.)My (ex) wife and I were never into BDSM, but I like the stories and illustrations.

So I guess I am just a wannabe.

[GaryWilcox]

So I guess I am just a wannabe.

You're here, and there's educational stuff and just talk, too. Everybody here is a wannabe, because they wannabe here!

[Mobius]

Me? Hardly worth mentioning.

I am an American who lives in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. I am only able to log onto this site thanks to an illegal satellite ISP. (Saudi Arabia censors the net.)

As of last month, I am no longer in a relationship. (Hurts like a bear.)My (ex) wife and I were never into BDSM, but I like the stories and illustrations.

So I guess I am just a wannabe.

Are you not taking a great chance?
That part of the world is a little wacky isnt it.
I heard that the fundlmentlist are going around blowing up Americans and doing all that beheading stuff.
I may be underemployed and have a crappy job but atleast I dont get killed doing it.

You got guts dude I'll give you that.
Please stay safe and come home soon.
Moby

[blue 2]

Hello to everyone, I am sort of to all of this! being BDSM and forums. I know I have a submissive nature and would love to explore it,this seems like a really nice place to do that. Any help would be greatly appreciated I truly love reading these forums.

[Shy_Girl]

Hi everybody. I am new here and to BDSM as well. I stumbled on it quite by accident one day and found it ...interesting and so here I am... not really sure what else to say, so hi!

[dark0slave]

[IMG]

this one is from Pune, India, 23 sub, sissy,.

Thank you for taking the time ,Goddess.

A friend of mine suggested that I write about my experiences and the
beliefs that have evolved over a lifetime of discovery about my
sexuality. I was reluctant to do this because I look at what I am at
present as just another stop on a journey. Who and what I am now may
change in the future. I certainly have changed from who and what I
was in the past. I began my "alternative lifestyle" as someone who
was primarily a submissive, but who topped others as a way to in turn
be topped. I switched in order to be submissive. I gradually became
primarily a Dominant, who switches to enjoy the best of both worlds.

I know that some would say that a switch is not a true Dom. These are
the purists in this lifestyle. My experience has been that people are
all over the map with this, and there is no right or wrong, no way of
practicing D/s or BDSM that is any better than any other way. The
trick is to find someone with whom you are compatible. Since there
are rarely perfect matches in life, it becomes a process of give and
take, a situation where each person says, "I can adjust for your
needs, if you will adjust for mine." Even those who practice what we
refer to as "vanilla sex," have the same kinds of adjustments to make
with their partners. Communication and adjustment are the key things
all kinds of relationships.

Anyway, my friend suggested that I might have something to say about
alternative love and life. While I am not sure about this, the idea
of recalling some of my experiences has some appeal. I hope that the
reader will bear with me as I tell some stories about things that
have happened to me, while occasionally discussing some of my
opinions about what works best when interacting with others who are
trying to mesh their needs with yours. I hope my recall is accurate
and not too self-serving, but being human and not having a super
memory, I am sure there will be times when facts, names, faces and
times may not be entirely accurate. I also hope that my approach is
appropriately modest and entertaining. If not, I am sure you will
look elsewhere.

Looking back from my childhood I realize, I had "different"
tendencies as early as around age 9, when I became "excited" by
something I read about Indians capturing a pioneer, tying him to a
tree and torturing him. Later, at 14, I was fortunate to find a copy
of "The Kinsey Report" under the couch and spent the summer reading
it. Of course, a 14 year old boy is interested in everything about
sex, but the information about BDSM was particularly interesting and
arousing. I managed to keep seeking and finding things to read about
it at a time when there were not a lot of things being written. It
was also years before the Internet and computers and very difficult
to find others with the same preferences. What little written
material I could find was enough to keep me very interested and
experimenting on myself as I grew up. I used a variety of things with
which to tie myself up and wrap and stimulate my testicles and penis.

As an adult, and being somewhat submissive, I managed to talk a
number of women I dated into letting me tie them up and bring them to
climaxes orally or through intercourse. The motivation was to
eventually get them to return the favor, and a significant number
did. Most of the time, I had vanilla relationships, in which I looked
for every opportunity to work in the bondage aspect. Some
relationships were more successful than others. Early on, I spent two
years in the Army. The year I was in Korea allowed me to pay local
area women to put me in bondage and bring me to climaxes through oral
and manual means.

Over the years, I learned more about the lifestyle and realized that
while I enjoy switching, I prefer being on top. The computer enabled
me to find many others who shared my needs. We all have discovered
that there are many more of us out there than we imagined. It has
allowed many people to discover and experiment with that part of
their sexuality.

Some of my steady subs and I have switched on occasion, but I am the
dominant one in a relationship. Because I have been on the bottom, I
feel I understand what my partner needs and have a better ability to
take her there. I understand what it feels like to be in bondage,
spread-eagle, and to have one's legs stretched to their limits. I
know what it feels like to be flogged and to have nipple clamps
attached and later released. I know what electric stimulation feels
like and how it can add to an orgasm. I know the need to be
controlled, to feel helpless and owned. I also know that people are
all over the map with this, and have different preferences. I accept
that and work with it.

I have also discovered that many subs want to start out easy, but
really desire to have their limits pushed a bit each time they get
together with a Dom. I understand how hard it is to trust someone the
first time with your bound and helpless body... but what a rush it is
while doing it. I do respect all limits and always use safewords and
regularly check on my sub. I use safe words like "green"
for "go", "yellow" for "take it easy" or "slow down", and "red"
for "stop." I have had subs in situations of being in helpless
bondage and telling me "no, no," as the nipple clamps are applied. In
these cases, the word "no" usually was a part of the scene and not
meant to make me stop; however, I usually checked to make sure by
asking, "how are you doing." While the question can distract a sub
and take her out of the scene a bit, I would rather be safe than
sorry by making her use a safeword. As the experts say, "safe, sane
and consensual" all the way.

Well, as they say, enough about me. Perhaps I should share some
stories from my experiences to illustrate my beliefs about what makes
a Dom a good partner. I understand that others my find that they have
better ways of doing things. I can only write about what has worked
for me.

love,
dark0slave. [/IMG]

[Abe Froman]

uhmmmm... long time listener, first time caller..

Greetings,
I am a sometimes author (okay, only two stories on ASSTR, but I'm still negotiating the time for more) and enthusiastic reader of the fine fiction I'm finding here.

My personal kinks are bondage, blackmail, humiliation, modification (especially BE), use of latex, lingerie and other specific clothing pieces as part of submission, and well, the more I read the more enjoyable things I find.

Thanks for the great library.

[harshlove39]

hey im also a new member here and would like to get to know some of you. im sort of new to the scene i know im sub i love the feeling of submitting to someone, giving up my free will, and knowing that if i do anything wrong i must take the punishment. i am also looking for an online master. i hope that as time goes by i get a chance to talk to most of you out there and mayb have some fun with some of you . ok that's all i have to say for now bye

[greedypuss]

Hello everyone, I am very knew to this board and new to whole scene. I discovered my interest in bondage recently and am keen to explore further. I am not from Cheshire like a lot of those on here! I hail from N.Ireland actually and am not sure how to go about finding others with the same interests as myself. I admit that while I do like having my hubby submit to my whims, I also like to be restrained and forced to submit to him. Only occasionally though!!!

[PopeRozen]

Hey everyone!

I actually started posting in the Lifestyle section before I came here, no disrespect to the mods intended.

Here's a little about Me:
I'm 22, a college student, and have been in the lifestyle for about 2/2.5 years. I'm still new, still learning, looking foreward to meeting people for friendship and fun. I have a girlfriend who is also my subbie, we are in a very open relationship, and have been together for one year and 9 months. I like floggers, rope, wax, needles, spankings, various forms of sensual stimulation (licking, biting, tickling, scratching), and I'm sure lots of things I haven't inflicted on my poor little girl yet!

Can't think of anything else, so Peace!

[DarkWhore]

Pleased to meet you all.

I am an attractive 30 year old lesbian from the UK. I am white with long dark hair. I love anything dark including music, films people and most importantly sex! I am looking to chat to other lesbians or indeed mistresses, or switches for online fun. Anyone from the UK too.
I am new to this , and don't really know what to write.

I saw a link to create a profile when I registered but I lost in and don't know how to go about creating one.....please help

Dark Whore :[

[erotic_nibbles]

Welcome to you both, clotje and DarkWhore

I hope you both enjoy these forums as much as I have in the short time I've been here
~~nibbles~~

[slavelucy]

I saw a link to create a profile when I registered but I lost in and don't know how to go about creating one.....please help

If you mean the profile attached to your name, click on 'User CP' on the top right of the screen (when logged in) and click on 'Edit Profle' from the list.

HTH and welcome to the forums.

sl

[BDSM_Tourguide]

If you mean the profile attached to your name, click on 'User CP' on the top right of the screen (when logged in) and click on 'Edit Profle' from the list.

HTH and welcome to the forums.

sl

You can also use the "Edit Signature, Edit Avatar, Edit Profile and Edit Options" selections from the "Quick Links" dropdown menu at the top of every page.

[erotic_nibbles]

Hey BDSM_Tourguide....just got to say that I think DarkWhore's pic is a good match for yours....lol....both are spooky but then also kinda cool
~~nibbles~~

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Hey BDSM_Tourguide....just got to say that I think DarkWhore's pic is a good match for yours....lol....both are spooky but then also kinda cool
~~nibbles~~

I like it. I wonder if she has a thing for vampires, too?

[Peogen7]

Hi folks, I'm Peogen7, Alex Bragi suggested I introduce myself here, I guess I went to the wrong thread, lol. My excuse, finally got a day off. Rambling on here, anyway happy to be with people of like mind.