Aesop's Tips For Beginners

[Timberwolf]

I thought I would chip in a rope bondage site. A friend pointed it out to me the other day, and as someone who's pretty in the dark when it comes to the "how" of complex rope work I found it very informative and quite interesting. It's hardly a be-all end-all site, more of the raw basics. Simple instructions on the basics, and helpful pictures to guide you as well.

http://www.nawashibari.com/technique...html~mainstage

[wolfs_lilgirl]

thank u for sharin!1 really helpt!smiles

[tainted Angel]

I have just found this, very helpful and great links, thanks.

[tessa]

In the many hallways and corridors around the Forums, I am so glad to have opened this door! Thanks to Aesop for beginning the thread and to all who have contributed. I have visited most of the links provided and they have been quite helpful and informative as well. I will be coming back to check for updates in case there are any (she said hopefully). This is exactly the type material I have been searching for. Again, thank you all!

[smilie]

Aesop~~ thank you very much , My Master and I are very new and we are kinda feeling like fish out of water alot But I will bring this to his attention and I know that it will set a few things at ease for him as it has done for me.

[sme6068]

Thank you for this thread. Now I have a name for the part that scares me the most, After Care. The two times I came to orgasm in bondage it scared the sh-- out of me! The adrenaline rush sent me into a hysterical, shaking, panic. I shook and cried for a good 10 minutes. The feelings were some of the most intense in my life, but it scared me silly. I guess that is why I have not tried harder to do more in real life.

[bxracer1]

This is a great sticky... thanks for posting, very informative to a newbie.

[Anniegal8]

Hi.... I am a newbie. How does the online BDSM work? Where can I read up on it?

[zasvig]

thank you for this grate thread it has been verry helpfull adn id love to hear more of what you have to say

[Sir_Russell]

sme6068 So it scared you that is half the fun. wait till you find it hard to climax without that help and with it you find yourself in subspace.

[Sir_Russell]

Anniegal8 it is done in private chat rooms or through IMs or over the phone. Be careful in jumping into to webcaming with a stranger though.

If you accept a Dom even online you have to be honest with him and do his tasks share your cares and feelings. Hopefully he will care for you and guide you.

[Anniegal8]

Anniegal8 it is done in private chat rooms or through IMs or over the phone. Be careful in jumping into to webcaming with a stranger though.

If you accept a Dom even online you have to be honest with him and do his tasks share your cares and feelings. Hopefully he will care for you and guide you.

... thank you Sir Russell!
Anniegal8

[sub84]

thanks to everyone and aesop for the information. as a newbie it has been very informative as im just researching until i can find a dom to guide me

[new@thisbut<3it]

as a newbie, wow, i found everything very informative, and thank you for taking the time to do this, i didnt know what any of those abbreviations were, and some of the terms were even new to me. thanks again

[denuseri]

sweey thread Aesop, sage advice, nice to see the "touch" of a real dominate at work

[kramasha]

Thanks Aesop.
Really answers a lot of questions.
Time and the effort put in is really appreciated

[tusayan]

I don't usually bump old threads, but this thread has some great tips for Doms who are just getting started as well as some very useful feedback, links, etc.

I know there are others who have recently joined that, like me, are relatively new to the lifestyle and might benefit from seeing this thread.

[John Bailey]

This is an excellent thread. I think everyone new to BDSM or just joining this forum should take a good look at it.
Thanks aesop

[blythe spirit]

Although this was posted in 2006, by a member, who apparently is no longer a member, he offers some sound advice.

Good it was bumped. Thanks tusayan