Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[softsmiles]

Hello A/all, i am soft smiles. i am a mature submissive female who has been out of the scene for awhile. i have " some" experience in the lifestyle both on line and in real life. i thought this site would be a good place to start reconnecting with my submissive feelings after finding myself "suddenly single". i am the type of girl who does best with Guidance and a firm Hand in a velvet glove.
be safe and well,
soft

[kittyinropes]

Hi I'm Tangledinropes and I've only been in the lifestyle for 7 months so I'm pretty new to all of it. I've only have one dom who is my current dom and boyfriend. I've just joined this site so I'm new to that as well. I'm in to kitty petplay. And I'm not sure what else to say so just ask me anything else I guess.

[curious lass]

hello all,

I am curiouslass,

It is my first day here and I am trying to grasp what is going on. I don't have much knowledge about all this, however I have read some books and stories about alternative life styles.

I read all Gor books and enjoyed them but I knew it was all imagination. while reading the stories on this website, sometimes I feel intimidated..

I am not in any sexual relationship, so it is all very confusing for me till now. I even don't know if such types of relationships that has been depicted in some of the stories are possible in real life.

Furthermore, my dilemma increases because of my geographical position and cultural background.. I don't think it will be possible for me to experience anything similar to what I am reading nowadays in real life. I think for me, online exploration is the only way..

to be true, I consider it only an online activity that may let me experience and enjoy some of the dreams and may increase my spectrum of imaginations.. I don't know if I will be able to gather enough confidence to experience anything similar to what I read or watch through 'stories and movies' in real life.

[Ozme52]

Try reading "A Connection" in the forum (My BDSM Life)... probably on the first page right now, it was recently bumped (commented), or click here.

It's a true accounting of a first meeting, consentual and sensual... and maybe a little less intimidating than pure imagination and fantasy.

[Masochisticbeauty]

Hello all, my name is Casie and I'm a single submissive.

[rebelkitten]

[B][COLOR="indigo"]Hi. I am pretty new to this lifestyle and as of yet have not had a Dom and i will admit im not looking i am still tryin to get back on my feet after moving back to texas from utah. I am still researching and tryin to find myself as well, if that makes sense. I know that I am submissive, but have not yet learned what my limits might be. I was wondering if there was some books or stories i could read that would help further in my research. Any input is greatly apperciated.

[Willing_to_fight]

hi, my name is willing_to_fight, wich means im willing to be a submissive but i will fight against the things i dont wish to do. i dont like to be embarrased, or made to feel like shit. i am a bit bratty, i love to be spanked and man handled. im looking for an experianced master who can teach me everything and give me the D/s relationship ive only read about. i will require lots of training because i get jelous and self concious. i dont know what to expect but i do know that since ive labled myself a "submissive", ive been a lot happier than i have in a while.

thank you for your time.

[Vix]

Hello,I'm Vix.
New to the site and new to the BDSM Lifestyle,I am a Submissive, I have yet to have a R/L D/S relationship..I came to this site to get a better insight into the world I Long for and to learn how to be the best Sub i can be so when i Find My Dom i can please him in every way & Displease him*Winks* Hey a girls got to have a Little punishment in her Life!!! ~*Smiles shyly*~ So any and all Opinion's are welcome and Appreciated !!

[Lorellei]

Hello everyone. This one has been actively submissive for 5 years. Though recently released, she is glad to have found a new "home" here at the Library. One has trained submissives for 2 years, and would love to help others and to learn more for herself. Thank you! Namaste!

[sub_sequent]

Hi. Im vicmal96. Im very,very new to all this. I envy those of you that have a Master. I am 36. Very recently read stories about submission and were very turned on by them. In the meantime i started researching the lifestyle and am so sure that this is what i want. I am married to a very conservative man that i love very much. So, im trying to figure out how to introduce this subject. Any advice is appreciated.

[twisty]

this is twisty.

[onemoresecret]

Hey all A newbie popping her head in to say hi. I have yet to experience a real-life D/s relationship, but I feel very interested in the lifestyle! I have a strong character in my everyday life but I feel like a sub and a good one given some time and experience. Hoping to find the right Dom for me someday!

Hoping to make some new friends and get all the info I possibly can to help me decide what I want from the lifestyle.

[takecontrol91]

heyy everyone, I'm very new too all this. I'm looking for a female domme. I haven't experienced anything in real-life but I'm very interested. I know what I'll like and what I'll dislike. I'm looking for a strict domme because i do tend to have an attitude problem. I will require a lot of training since I am new so an experienced domme is preferred.

Thanks,

Takecontrol

[happygirl]

Hello!
i am happygirl & new here,I am female, submissive, I know I am a natural sub... obedient, quiet, meek, & docile. I am looking for a mistress who can train me, order me, guide me, and humiliate me. I love to serve and please mistress; it’s my job as a slave girl. I feel my place is to worship and obey. I do believe in serious discipline... whatever kind you deem appropriate. I am looking to be trained to be a perfect cunt ass & breast sucking/humiliation slut for you to use however & whenever you’d like.
I am shy type lady, someone to dominate me every so often. I am always willing to try something new, and love humiliation and power play.I do want this to be an honest.

[georgygl1977]

Hi all, I'm georgygl and I'm new to being sub. I've never had a master/mentor on-line or r/l. I would love to learn more, any suggestions would be fantastic!

[queenslave]

hi, i'm queenslave, i totally submissive. i have been in sub/dom relationship like 8 months ago, but my master move abroad and i haven't meet him since then. but sometimes when we online at skype i open my cam and he order me to do things, and when i don't do what he said i just punished myself, and it not feel right. so now i'm on my way to searching a new master/misstress, i prefer misstress, to guide me, order me, and keeping me as her.

[SilentMelody]

I everybody, I'm SilentMelody. I've known that I'm a submissive since 16, but only recently entered into a r/l relationship. I am co-owned (by a married Dom couple)and in a poly family. I love it, it's like I have a whole new family, their two youngest kids still live at home. Their only a couple of years younger than me, and I've come to love them like my own (sadist) sister and (subby) brother. (^^,)

I love my Master and Miss, they're perfect together. He's the gentleman mindfuck and She's the most unyielding sadist. I'm so very lucky!

[CyndiTV]

To all and especially superiors. Oh the regrets i have, not fully embracing my transvestitism when at a young age, not finding someone to take me in hand and lead me forward into the wonderful world of submission. I had a r/t master at one time, but did not let that go to its ultimate end. BUT then when i look at my vanilla side i do have a wonderful life, with a partner that is beyond my best friend and love, but still there is 10% of me that yearns for the "alternative". So what am i to do? i'm seeking respite and mental adventure in this virtual world of cyber - not as fulfilling as r/t, but here we can let our imaginations really run riot - sad but feasible.

[raven_aerie]

Hello, everyone. i'm raven_aerie; raven or aerie will do (no caps, please). i'm a slave from Maryland; have never been in a RL M/s relationship before, but am currently in a vanilla partnership with a woman. She tried to be my Mistress, but it didn't work out as she couldn't bring herself to dominant me or treat me as a slave. i prefer a Master over a Mistress because, even though i'm largely asexual, i find myself eager to make myself sexually available to a man. i've been in a couple online M/s relationships, but none of them have lasted very long. Currently, i'm on the hunt for a dedicated online Master. my girlfriend is (obviously) aware that i'm a slave and that i long to serve, and so she's given me the go-ahead to search for someone provided it's kept strictly online.

[ksst]

Hello all, I'm married and have always been interested in bondage, both reading about and doing it, but recently it has occupied a lot more of my thoughts and our sex life. My husband is into because of how it turns me on. I liked to be tied, dominated, spanked etc. and am here to get to know people with the same kinds of desires. I have really enjoyed the library of stories.

[baldkate]

Hi. I'm Kate. I'm submissive. It was more by accident
that I was introduced to this life style. I was with a
girl. She started to dominate me.

I have seen that girl for eight months. Later there
were spankings. And she made rules that I had to
follow. I followed all her rules.

Let me give you one of her rules. It is a dress rule.
If we would see each other I had to wear a long skirt
and a very tight T-shirt.

Panties or a bra were not allowed. The girl came to my
apartment or I came to her house. I knew. I had to
dress according to her instructions.

I was also on five inch high heels. She has bought the
high heels for me. She found me look good on them. She
wanted her girl to look good.

That was a couple of months ago. The girl got a
promotion. She was send to another country. I could not
follow her. Now I'm alone.

I hope to find a girl that can dominate me. And that
knows how to show me my place. I must say. I'm not very
experienced.

The girl only has spanked me. On my bums. Not on my
boobs or on my pussy. But I'm willing to go further.
Please. Train me first.

Oh. I'm lesbian. I have been lesbian almost all my
life. I never had a boy of a man. I do not want them.
I'm looking for a mistress. Not a master.

[Domin8or]

Welcome here. Hope you'll find what your seeking. Enjoy the journey

[hslave]

Hi im Hslave, im a straight female submissive. I especially love rape fantasy and humiliation/degradation, anyone who's interested in text online roleplay msg me please

[terpsichore]

hello i'm terpsichore, I am new to the BDSM world and have never been in a D/s relationship in real life... but I know that I am a submissive, a long for it, I ache to please, I wait only for someone to tell me how... I am in a Vanilla relationship, and am trying to get him into it, but he doesn't understand why I crave it... I long to learn more about this world... thank you all
terpsichore

[baldkate]

Getting into a relation with a master. Thinking of you.
Thinking of what you said. I'm afraid that is hard.
Will it work?

Let me tell you how it was for me. I'm lesbian. I
started living together with Beth. Right away she was
dominating me.

Maybe not in the beginning. But later I saw how right
she always was. I accepted that she was dominating me.
But I wanted more. I wanted to be spanked.

That was two years after we started living together. I
asked her to spank me. She did not want to do it. But
she gave it a try.

It was a good try. Beth liked what she saw. And I like
it too. Well. The spanking stayed in. Beth is still
spanking me. Every day.

I guess you already talked with your partner. And he
doesn't really want to dominate you. I wonder. Is he
very smart. Does he have smart sayings?

Of course. A submissive can never question the person
that is dominating her. But if that person is not too
smart. It will be hard.

For me. Beth has made my life much better. I'm not
saying that as a submissive girl you can demand it. But
I think that is how it should be.

What I would do. I have a suggestion. See what you
think. I'm not telling you what to do. But could your
partner dominate you?

Could he make a better girl out of you? If you feel he
can. Talk with him. Give it a try. If not. Stay normal
or get out of your relation.

Kate

[charlotte89]

Hi all... i'm not exactly new here, but in the big scheme of things i'm quite new to the lifestyle. i've been a member of the library for a little bit, reading the forums, learning bit and pieces. i figured it's about time i said hi to you fine folks : )

[Stella<3]

I'm Stella,
I'm a Submissive of course, But I've never really had an official Dom, I've had play doms, but no one who took it seriously, they all expected me to be a switch, and I just couldn't do it.
I'm not 'looking' for a dom, I figure that I'll find one when Im ment to.
Due to the fact that I'm young, there aren't alot of people out there at my age that know what they want,
My friends also dont know the extent of my submission, there for I'm looking forward to meeting and speaking to other subs.
I hope to get to know some of you.

[ksst]

Welcome, I'm a new sub too. This is a great place to learn.

[English Sir]

Hi I'm Dom and new to site but if any sub ladies ever want to chat please get in touch, who knows you may enjoy it x

[blue.spark]

Hello.
I joined some time ago, but have been lurking the forums (fora?) looking for answers to some small but nagging and specific questions. This is my first post anywhere.
I am married, submissive sexually but in no other obvious ways.
The bedroom/out of the bedroom dynamic in committed bdsm relationships interests me.
It's more likely that I'll start a sentence with "I think . . " than with "I feel . . ." which I think might have something to do with my interest in bdsm and my presence here.