Masters Please introduce yourselves here

[DOMLORD]

sorry double post

[DOMLORD]

my name is john dominating women seems appealing to me so i'm trying to coordinate something.

[Whippett]

I just found this thread - so here goes.

I'm just past 60, and have been dominating the people around me for as long as I can remember - but I suppose my Rubicon was just after my 16th birthday, when I took dominating to a new level and administered my first spanking to a girl. I didn't know about BDSM back then - I'd read pot-boilers about slavery (the early Gor novels come to mind, as well as those Mens magazines with stories of Nazi love-camps), had wet dreams about owning willing slaves - but it was just something I liked.

I met others in the lifestyle much later, but had been merrily spanking bottoms all along. Meeting others who were already in the lifestyle was an eye-opener for me - I learned some shibari from those folks, and the use of gags and different forms of restraints (I'd always been good with knots - but discovered there's more than just typing wrists and ankles to bedposts - and of some delightful toys).

My second awakening came through a relationship with a Domme who was submissive to me. Through her I learned a lot - both about submission and the use of pain. Through her I also met a Dom who mentored me and helped me refine my approach.

I've had odd breaks when I stepped back from the lifestyle a little - the loss of a sub in a traffic accident made me step back for almost two years - I didn't play or even look for a play partner, never mind anyone to get serious about in that time, though I continued to socialize with some of my friends in the community. The last break happened recently. Through a variety of reasons I found myself moving half-way round the world. Finding work was difficult (over-educated, over-qualified, nothing in my field available) and I ended up in a job that required a lot of travel. I didn't feel it fair for a girl (I prefer a 24/7 total ownership relationship) to subject her to my schedule, so I contented myself with play partners - all of whom were delightful, but none of whom lit that extra spark.

Recently my situation changed again, and I found myself in a position to take on a slave once more. I recently acquired a an absolutely wonderful girl, and we are in the process of settling into a Master/slave relationship. And so the saga continues...

I've been around a lot (from back in the bad old days when no-one talked about the lifestyle openly) in North America and Europe both. I consider myself old-school, give pain for pleasure (hers and mine), have moved on from rope to chain, and enjoy the sound of a whip at work. I have an extremely active imagination, and use it a lot in concocting scenes and scenarios to play out with my girls. I'm always willing to learn something new, and to pass on what I know. I don't mince my words, and don't accept bullshit in any form. And I love a good joke or prank.

[mistressmary]

Hi all,
I am Mistress mary and I have been a dom for a only a few years. I think that most people in the vanilla world do not think that woman can dominate and I found that this lifestyle has really shown me that, that stereotype is a bunch of bs. I love being dominate and in control and making females submit to me. It give me such a wonderful feeling. I found this site by accident and I love it. This is my fist night on and my first posting.

thanks all.

[Logic1]

welcome to all you Men and Women

[Tojo]

Well it’s too damn hot to go outside this week, so I’ll introduce myself for those who don’t know me.

I identify as a Dom, or at least my girls seem to accept that I am
Late 40s, happily married to a sexy girl who wouldn’t understand the whole D/s thing- we’ve played around a bit with ropes and so forth over the years though. I guess we have something resembling an LDD relationship, only without the spanking.

I have my own girl in a far off land, with whom I’ve had an online D/s relationship with for more than two years.

Also a few girls I mentor, support, teach D/s to and sometimes play with….
Had a rather nice encounter last year with one of them, and hope to meet another one or two someday.

I like to really get to know a girl, and make a positive impact on her life- D/s is more than just a game to me. Casual encounters are not my style at all.

One of my greatest passions is to ease the way for new people- too many get disillusioned and give up, through lack of knowledge, lack of support or from meeting some ‘wannabee’

[Mr. Francesco]

Hello everybody:

I´m 27 years old and I´ve only started to learn and find interest in the BDSM scene recently (let´s say a year or two).

I want to learn as much as possible and to find out more about my potential and what I really like and dislike.

I am Dominant but am not in a relationship right now, so it´s hard to explore more.

Nice to talk to you. Hope to learn and make friends.

[Master_todd]

Master todd i was introuduced to the lifestyle by a online mistress who i speak to on occasion...i can be switch since i am not that use to being dominant but wouldnt mind learning more....

[Wind_Walker25]

I am Dave. R/L Master new to the net.
15 years ago a wonderful woman walked up to me and told me. Sir you can be a RED NECK from HELL, or something wonderful. she had been a slave from birth I guess you can say,she openned this life up to me, and for the most part trained me. to be a Master!

[Mr.Nuahs]

Hello, I go by Nuahs and my wife and I are new to this life style. We have been exploring now for about 8 mo and are loving it. We have come to terms with our roles and have been becoming more comfortable with them as time goes on.

I am glad that I found this site because there are no groups that i have found in our area. We live on the east coast of Canada and are finding it hard to learn. I am doing a lot of searching and reading online but it had been hard to get some answers to the questions that have come up. I look forward to being able to talk to others that are more experienced.

Thanks

[Chuckdom19]

Hello, old hand finally posting here. (Feels a little like Alcoholics Anonymous here... "Hi, I'm Chuck, and I'm a Dom." "Hi, Chuck!")

Well, similar to Tojo, I am a Dom with a wife I am deeply in love with, but who has no clue how to react to D/s other than 'no spanking for me!!' She understands my needs, however, and encourages my long-distance relationship with my Sweet Yellow Rose. We have an hours-daily, meet in person two weeks a year relationship; the last couple years we have both lived for those meetings halfway between our homes. She was slightly educated in the arts by a few wanna-be small-d doms, and somewhat moreso by the Dom before me, however our relationship has grown to the point of deep love and respect.

Am I an addict? I certainly am! The moans of subspace blended with the sound of leather on her ass excite the hell out of me!

[Neon]

I am Sir Neon. I am just coming out of my shell so to speak. Honey and I have been married for about 10 yrs. and about 2 weeks ago we came to the realization the this (BDSM) is what we wanted for our lives. She then proceded to tell me that 1. she has always wanted me to TOTALLY Dominate her, and 2. she has always see a Dom inside me she just wanted me to come to it on my own. Well now we are off and running. I am eager to learn all I can to be the best Dom I can be not just for Honey but me as well.

[bgirl1987]

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[Tonydog000]

I'm Tony. I'm just starting to explore my Dom side with an experienced sexual sub who is being very patient with me. I'm still going through the ' what if my family or friends find out ' stage Can anyone give me some advice or guidance?

I'll post again in a more appropriate thread if I find one, but new to this forum

[FatherTimejr]

Im a 20 year old dom, looking to learn more and grow into my stature, so to speak. I'm looking for a sub to work with, to be with and to learn from. I lack experience but I seek to broaden that greatly.

I my loves are what my sub loves, my pleasure derived from my own kinks, but in turn from hers, and teasing her with what makes her scream in pleasure, or pain, depending on we both feel. Communication is key to me.

Anyways look forward to speaking with everyone, learning and growing...oh and cumming -grins and adjust his halo, his finger starts to bleed as he pricks it on a horn-

[cyberian11]

My name is Drew and I've been dominant my entire adult life. It's just that my past pretty much rendered me a social submissive. (Strict religious upbringing in a female-dominant family tends to do that to you.) So, in the past 7 years that I've been embracing my true nature, I've been exploring the lifestyle gradually, mostly playing with newbies who've never been spanked before. (It's not hard to spot a submissive-in-the-making). But it's not satisfying, as very few bedroom submissives have a taste for edgier play. I moved to NYC to learn more and to meet skilled teachers. And to find experienced submissives to play with. Theoretical knoweldge is one thing, but it's time to put my learning into practice.

Drew

[babygirl2320]

My name is Drew and I've been dominant my entire adult life. It's just that my past pretty much rendered me a social submissive. (Strict religious upbringing in a female-dominant family tends to do that to you.) So, in the past 7 years that I've been embracing my true nature, I've been exploring the lifestyle gradually, mostly playing with newbies who've never been spanked before. (It's not hard to spot a submissive-in-the-making). But it's not satisfying, as very few bedroom submissives have a taste for edgier play. I moved to NYC to learn more and to meet skilled teachers. And to find experienced submissives to play with. Theoretical knoweldge is one thing, but it's time to put my learning into practice.

Drew

hi im new to this life style so maybe you can help me learn

[BorderCollie]

Hi, I'm BorderCollie.
I named myself this as it's a typical "Workin' Class Dog".
I've been into BDSM since I was a kid, however never actually got to experience it until I was approx 19.
I'm married to my sub, and have been for 11 years....
I believe that BDSM should be fun as well as ummmmmmmm BDSM, and with that in mind I'll run to the end of the earth for a laugh and I'm known as a practical joker where ever I go.
Interesting how people constantly pick me as a Dom, as I am in construction so to speak and dress accordingly.

[SheUsesThem]

Hello I'm Mistress Carla from Texas, a fairly new domme but building a stable.
I'm the type who no matter what I do, I research and learn and know as much as I possibly can about something before I attempt to undertake it, 'cuz I hate to screw things up. So, I've been learning and exploring for years and have finally stepped in to this world. I still have a lot to learn, though, so will appreciate this site and the experience of the other dominants here.

TY.

[Master Obsidian]

Hello all:

I am Master Obsidian. I'm 43 and a freelance writer by trade although I've worked any number of jobs before being published. Including, but not limited to, IT (Server Support among others), Sales, business owner (2), and even set up circus tents for two summers. Although I was raised in California, I've lived in Arizona, New York, and England, before I settled in Florida.

Because of the nature of my work and that the revelation of my ahem ... particular kinks, would be detrimental to my continued success, my privacy is of utmost importance.

I am currently looking for a female sub, but am not interested in an empty-headed hoyden. Character and intelligence are high on my list.

[Johnny28]

Hello. My name is John. I am a 28 year old Dom, quiet, reserved and always on the alert for new information. I am not currently in a committed relationship but do have a 'girlfriend' who is into spanking and light bondage. It's all good.

[In2kink]

Howdy all, I’m JR aka In2kink, and I’m a straight male dominant. I’ve been involved in BDSM for a little over ten years now, primarily offline other than a just a bit of online role playing. I’m divorced and not in a lifestyle relationship at present, just doing the vanilla dating thing.

A discussion with one of my dominant female friends sparked my recent interest in exploring the lifestyle online. Her position is that face to face is the only way to experience meaningful power exchange and BDSM play. Being the curious type and a part-time writer, I decided to see what the online scene had to offer and I hope to write about it in the near future. At first blush it seems like a great way for people to get their feet wet who have developed an interest in BDSM but aren’t quite ready for a face to face encounter. And just from the little I have read on this site thus far, it seems like many people do in fact find exclusive online encounters to be quite enjoyable and meaningful in expressing their kink side.

My introduction to the lifestyle came by way of a female switch that I was dating at the time. Knowing little beyond the general stereotypical information about BDSM, I began as a submissive but pretty quickly she helped me to understand that I was a dominant and not just a bratty sub! She helped me to learn my lifestyle role and since that time I have been blessed with meeting some other great mentors. I’m pretty excited to learn how I might translate my offline experiences to online.

I have a wide variety of interests with regards to the lifestyle so I won’t bore you with listing them here. Just suffice to say that my personal limits involve avoiding things that are illegal, that victimize any person or thing or that violate my own personal ideas about morality. Other than that, most everything else is fair game. I am pretty anal about enforcing rules and I like the more formal and ritualistic aspects of the lifestyle. I wouldn’t describe myself as a sadist per se but I do appreciate the use of degrees of pain within a scene to foster the feelings of being controlled for a submissive and to produce the rather spectacular contrasting sensations between pain and pleasure. Bondage is perhaps my most favorite BDSM activity but as mentioned I like variety.

Long term, I hope to again have a real life, 24/7 lifestyle relationship and in the interim perhaps I can meet a suitable submissive for some online experience to feed my kink needs. I’ve already found much to like about this site and look forward to getting to know and exchanging ideas with some of the very experienced people who are members here.

JR

[denuseri]

Wow sir what a great introduction,, I am sure you will find some online submissives more than willing to help you explore (WEG) all the asspects of online dominace sir, blushes and sooner than you may think too, giggles with my hand over my mouth geisha style

[Asmodeuss]

Hello my name is Asmodeuss I have been into BDSM since I was very young as I got
older and learned what it was and what it meant it interested me even more.
but being so young I didn't have access to fund's and BDSM store's so most of my
equipment was DIY. In my early teen's I was very lucky to find some people to teach
me about the lifestyle and I tried to learn everything I could from them and I am very
greatfull to them for that opportunity.

I have been out of the lifestyle for some time now(12 years).I've had a few playmate's
over the year's but they only liked to play and that just isn't as satisfying as living the
lifestyle. Since deciding to get back into the lifestyle this past month I figured I'd get
back to my DIY root's.I have started a few project's and I will post them on hear if
anyone is interested.

Right now I'm just looking to meet people who share my interest in BDSM
and find some local Dom/Domme's to help me hone my skill's so i can be the best Dom I can be.

[SadisticDesires]

Hello,
We are a male dominant and a female switch couple. We have been a couple for about two years and a half. The male have been into the lifestyle for about eight years and the female been introduced to it within the relationship. The male is a graduate student, PhD candidate and the female is a college student. We are seeking to add a female slave into our house. Please feel free to contact us if you are interested or simply looking for friends.

[KingSean]

My name is King Sean, just did the intro thing in that section. Thought I would introduce myself to my fellow doms. I am only 23 but I am ready to learn how to take care of and train my own sub. I don't like talking about myself so I will just throw out a couple lines. I always felt bored almost trapped by the vanilla world. It was time for a change. This site will be a catalyst for that change. I hope I found a path out of exile.

[Masteramh]

Hey im 19 live in hull, Hoping to meet someone to live in a 24/7 relationship with, other than that just look around and learn som emore.

[Hans]

I am Hans and 57. I have only been in this lifestyle a few years with one sub for 2 years and just started to train one when I had to move. She did not want to move with me to San Antonio Texas, so I will be looking for a new sub once I get situated there.

I am always looking to perfect my techniques and style, especially if i learn a new area through my searching or if the sub wants to explore something different that I had not tried.

[sirbor]

My name is Sirbor and I am a Dom. From the height of my 56 years I look around and see a sea of possibilities. I lost my wife and sub 3 yers ago to illness and am now looking to leave the vanilla environment of the past couple of years and go back to my core reality. I'm not a sadist but am definately in control of my environment.

I enjoy bondage and am quite good with rope, a background in sailing, but also enjoy the use of leather and metal. I do not seek a 24/7 BDSM relationship but one that includes the vanilla aspects needed to deal with the world outside. I will admit to a serious Daddy orientation and find that there is something quite magical about lifting the schoolgirl skirt covering the shapely bottom of a submissive woman for a spanking.

[CookieMan]

Hmm. Where to begin. Here seems to be as good a place as any. I've been searching for a while now for a place to speak with like-minded folks. My name is Zac and I'm in a wonderful relationship. I'm not all that fabulous at talking about myself, but an introduction isn't so much about me as it is about me meeting everyone else, I suppose. I'm a bit of a sadist with a penchant for bondage and knife play. I guess that's enough for now, however I'll answer almost any question asked of me.