me and my boyfriend, are not new to this sence, but are not very experanced at it, I would like any tips on being a misstress. We dont have much room in our room and we live with other people so its quite hard for us to get time to do it, we have whips and gags ect, but i would like some other ideas on what to do with him, im not that intressed in bdsm but he is and i belive that he wishs we do it more often but i dont , is there a way inwhich we can combine bdsm and sex. i try to do things which he likes but i not lose consintration but forget what i was trying to do then i just cant think what else to do, can any1 give me any tips that would be great thanks