Gaydar

[leo9]

A lot of gays claim they can always spot another however hard they're trying to pass for straight, Do you feel you can spot another Dom or sub when they're not flagging in any obvious way?

I've felt for a long time that I have a hunting instinct for subs, but I haven't had many chances to check it. The one that sticks in my memory was when I joined a new counselling group, and as one woman introduced herself the buzzer went off in my mind, and I thought, her, eh?

She didn't say anything to suggest it, and I didn't investigate, because it's very bad form to hit on your counselling partners. But I was open about my own sexuality within the group: and months later, she phoned me because she was getting intense masochistic fantasies, and I was the only person she knew who wouldn't think she was sick or crazy.

I was glad to help: but I also enjoyed a little private smirk of "I knew that!"

[thrall]

Yes i agree. i know when someone is a Dom/me.........i can feel it.

[Kuskovian]

To put it simply...Yes.

[WyldWyl]

Nope. I neither have gaydar, nor dom/subdar.

I do have 'I'd really like to take a riding crop to you-dar', though.

[Euryleia]

I do have 'I'd really like to take a riding crop to you-dar', though.

That line made me laugh. Thanks, Wyl.

I've got pretty good gaydar for women, not so good for men.

The same goes for Dominants and submissives. I can tell women but not so much with men. I occasionally mistake a guy for a Dom when he's just being an arrogant asshole.

[denuseri]

We have two other threads on this that i know of, one for spotting doms and one for subs, i allready pretty much said it all in them from my perspective

i suppose its like with everything else, one can mabey pick up one it and others may not

and btw Wyld Sir that post had me ROFLMFAO ty

[Jayden McZimmer]

well i think i have pretty good gaydar. i think i can spot some people pretty well even if they are not flaming.

and picking out dom/dommes, it doesn't even come into my mind. i have never tried to pick anyone out like that. i guess i don't think about it lol

[fetishdj]

I used to have a really good method ofr spotting gay men. They were the ones trying to chat me up in bars... Seriously, I used to get hit on a lot despite not being gay (and no, I am neither confused nor homophobic... I have dabbled and know from experience I get no feelings at all from gay activities). Maybe I send out confusing signals

And, of course, all men have a surefire way of spotting lesbians. Surely it is any women who refuses to sleep with them?
[And no, before I get flamed, I am not in anyway serious about that comment...]

[AdrianaAurora]

I have an excellent gaydar and and Domdar, but for some odd reason it only works with men, (maybe I just don't notice women).

[Asmodeuss]

Well the human brain is an organic computer capable of processing thousands upon thousands
of bits of information per second. It will take everything from your posture,sent,speech to the
way someone walk's and calculate a percentage based on you knowledge and interest's. The
higher the percentage of certain traits the more likely that person is Dom/Sub Gay/Strait

I'm pretty good at picking people out whatever they may be
for the longest time I just figured i had a knack for it.