Oral Sex and Domination

[aussiesubgirl]

What's submissive about straddling her face, pulling and hooking her legs under my arms, and in essence turning her upside down... tormenting her all the while with my mouth but still not giving her permission to cum?

What's submissive about tying her legs wide open, stretched out and unable to move, drawing my chair up to the table... and dining?

What's submissive about suspending her by the ankles, legs apart, making her swallow me and hold on with only her lips and suction... eaten for doing so... whipped whenever she loses contact?

So many games, so little time.

Just PERFECT Sir...that has made me melt

[efwb2]

Hi Fatishdj

So true and is there any thing you dont know on this topic, so much info.

thankyou

El

[Sir Phat Daddy]

I myself do enjoy giving the female sub oral but it all depends on my mood and how long shes been around me. It doesnt in my mind fit in with the SM I prefer but more of a reward for being a good pet.

[Kargan3033]

Hello people nice to see you all here.
I have found this topic and your replys most informtive.
Here's a bit of info I wish to share with my fellow Dom/mes.
I'm a novice Dom, I have a very basic and I do mean basic understandong of a Dom/sub relationship, I have never had a real life subby/slave and I could use all the advice I can get.
As for for oral sex and Domination this topic has given me a few ideas for not only controling my real life slave when I finaly find her but it has given me a few idea to spice up some of my more kinkyer stories.
Again thanks for the engrossing topic.
I look forward to hear from you all.
Peace.
Kargan3033

[Matin]

i thought denial of orgasms was common lol. she's not even allowed to get herself off without permission.

she has to call or text me. so if i tie her to the bedposts and eat her till she's flopping around and begging - or not; gags are fun - isn't that domination? *shrug* works for me!

[Warmaster]

...having one, or all, my girls properly restrained, and enjoying how delightfully they wriggle at the flick of my tongue tip...what's not properly 'Dom' about it?
Done the right way, it can also be a really handy tool in the Dom's kit for punishment...like taking a girl right to the edge, and stopping.
Also, there's times when I use it as a reward, or just for the simple sake of giving them pleasure.
But, they all KNOW that the nastier side of my tongue doesn't deal with words.

[leo9]

I've never seen the point of orgasm denial, because any fool can not make a woman come. One of my ground rules is that you dominate men by not letting them come and women by making them come till they beg for it to stop. And yes, when she's fighting and trying to kick you away and you keep on licking till she loses it again... what's not dominant?

[Warmaster]

I've never seen the point of orgasm denial, because any fool can not make a woman come. One of my ground rules is that you dominate men by not letting them come and women by making them come till they beg for it to stop. And yes, when she's fighting and trying to kick you away and you keep on licking till she loses it again... what's not dominant?

A very good point, and one I do use now and then. Also, I will say that taking them to the edge--then stopping and letting them just 'boil' has it's merits also.

[Oriana1981]

I've never seen the point of orgasm denial, because any fool can not make a woman come. One of my ground rules is that you dominate men by not letting them come and women by making them come till they beg for it to stop. And yes, when she's fighting and trying to kick you away and you keep on licking till she loses it again... what's not dominant?

Well well, a guy who really knows how to handle a woman when it comes to oral sex! I had a bf who made me discover that I could lose it again! Now every new fuck buddy I have must do it! It is my way or the high way!

[Solorrman]

I realy like to be dominated by a teen

[Misschief]

... I think of it as consumption rather than service- using a slave's body to satisfy some insatiable hunger for twat. In that context it jibes perfectly with the atmosphere of service, humiliation and objectification in which I like slave to exist.

That pussy is my property, if I want to, I can eat it like a fresh apple pie that's still window-sill warm. I can jam my tongue inward and upward like I'm prospecting for gold, or turn my head sideways and play it like a harmonica, if the mood suits me. I'm as entitled to do that as I am to just leave it alone and tell her to suck my cock and then go make me a sandwich.

It's all in the tone of the encounter. If I leave her there quaking like a little bitch, then kiss her aggressively to share with her the taste of her own quivering quim, then finally spit in her face and callously leave the room- there's nothing submissive going on on my end.

She's the one spreading her legs and getting devoured. I'm not empowering her by catering to her whims- she's serving her most intimate places up to me like she was a piece of meat. In this capacity she has all the dignity of a roasted pig on a silver platter, ready for consumption, with an apple jammed into its mouth. Which is to say, no dignity at all.

- FS

yes.. yes.. yes.. my Master takes it from me and makes me squirt all over myself and thoroughly loves it for all of the same reasons You have detailed.. He literally says, "it is like I am taking it from you and I love it" and while i am so shy at the time, the fact that He gets off on taking it from me is so fucking hot.. its unbelievable.. and that is what i think about when He is doing it to me.. that He is drinking down my essence and my surrender makes Him stronger and diminishes my will, make me less of an individual and more of what i am meant to be: His.. His fuck slut.. His cum whore.. His toy.. that is all i want to be.. in every moment of every day, there is only the desire to be used for His u;timate enjoyment, truly.. and i get so wet sucking His cock that i feel selfish.. i love serving Him and if he desires my pussy in His mouth, it is my honor to provide Him with that for His amusement..

[Misschief]

double posted.. sorry..

[Tweek213]

I use oral as both. For me it can be as much about allowing my sub the pleasure of the sensation as it is about controlling the scene in the way that I see fit. I agree with Daumon in that it's always about how and when I choose. If anything it only reinforces my dominance.

[CharlesWolf77]

In a few of my femdom stories, oral sex is used by the dominant female either as a torture or because there's a consequence (my most recent story had the protagonist struggling not to cum while being held by a six-armed spider-succubus, that was fellating him.)

[Kevin Fox]

@leo9, no orgasm can make subbes beg just as it can subs... have you never been brought to the edge, only for your Dom to stop?! It takes skill to get a woman wet and then deny her.
@Adriana, Mae West lives!

[slaveboy 6]

As a submissive male, i love to be forced to suck pussy, and i have done so in many different positions.

[Solorrman]

I like to b dominated in a way that i must perform all kinky things to the mistress with no question whatsoever.
I like humiliation like spit in the mouth,snort eating, urinal consumption and oral going down eating all gooy snatch squart. I am looking for a mistress pls

[ISOMore417]

Just curious… Were you successful?

[jbond]

As a reward it feels pleasurable. Being in control in the relationship feels great. Oral sex it's really more enjoyable and just enjoying each other's body.

[subserviant]

Hi denuseri you can use me with a strap on any time you want

[subserviant]

Hi Den You can use the strapon dildo on me whenever you want