anal

[ksst]

I guess I don't find anal humiliating or taboo either. Mostly I like how much he enjoys it, but with practice it has gone from being mostly painful to mostly pleasure if done really gently.

If I can remember back to when I was a virgin, vaginal sex was no picnic at first either.

[iucundavi]

Anal is a lot of fun, but, as many others have said, it's not something to rush into. My first girlfriend was experienced and knew what she was doing, so it wasn't a problem for me....but definitely something to start experimenting with via fingers or sex toys before actual penetration.

[Misschief]

It can be straight-up painful.. in a not sexy, owwwie, get the f away from me, standpoint.. in addition, a submissive yearns to be clean, or at least feel as though cleanliness is not a distraction..

With that being said, I have both enjoyed and hated it.. When it was good, it was really good.. Felt like his cock was rubbing my g-spot; clitoral stimulation is always nice *wags tail emphatically*

[Dog's Lady]

Just another thought--I am rather small, vaginally speaking, and vaginal sex can be painful for me (although not with Dog, so far!) But did you know that it is one muscle? It runs a figure eight around your vagina and your anus-really, my OB/GYN nurse practitioner talked with me about it-so if you can focus, you can help relax it. You do keep up with your Kegels, don't you? Most women need them to stay tight, I do them so I can relax that muscle on cue, which I often need to do. Just another thing to keep in mind to help make it easier, if you're interested.

[Ozme52]

...not to mention those who kegel are great lovers.

The girls can milk and massage... the boys throb. I know I get plenty of wide eyed stares when they feel me pulsing.

[Dog's Lady]

Oh, Oz, had I not just read about what you and jeanne have . . . I might be tempted to ask if you would be in CT anytime soon. But what you two have is just too amazing; anything I could do for you would pale in comparison.

[Ozme52]

Depends on what we decide to do for a summer trip together.

Beyond our off-season meet-ups, we've done the Gulf Shore, the Black Hills, and Florida, (the gulf side.)

Perhaps we'll do a tour... if we can get some bdsmlibrarians to offer us places to stay and help us create a kinky itinirary.

[d/s_couple]

i LOVE anal! i am an all around anal slut. My Dom loves to play with my ass and i since god blessed me with something he loves, i can't wait to see what other ways we can play with my ass.

Cock, boys, beads, fingers, i love it all....

so yeah, girls can and do love anal...

[ksst]

Beads are fun, they are probably my favorite toy for anal use.

[hellman]

this Thread is great is a man it is a big taboo i have given it it to my ex g/f and they had done it befor so they know how far they would go as i'm v/sub in bed but i'm thinking more and more about having it done to me but never had the nover to ask them but from what i have read here i will wait till i find some one i can tust to take it slowly for me it would be the most sub act i can do for them

[CrushersGirl]

Always an interesting subject...i love anal. For me, i think it is the act itself and what it means to me. To me, it is one of the MOST submissive of experiences. I'm always tempted to try to squirm away at the initial entry...but i always enjoy every second of it. There is just something about being pinned beneath a dominant and taken in a place that IS so very taboo and that nature didn't intend to be used for sex. Yes, if not done with care, it can be very UNenjoyable...but when done with someone you can trust, it can be a hot, shivering moment of ultimate surrender... nummy!

[Sirdred]

I must admit that I have an anal focus after all I named my slave buttslave. For me the turn on is having the sub/slave bound tightly around the ankles, knees, and under the hips with the wrists tied to the thighs. I then like to tape the ass cheeks spread apart so that the anus is exposed and helpless. Lots of fun can be had with a feather, ice, very warm water, and a rubber spatual for a light anal spanking.

[~CreamySub~]

omg LOVES ANAL , from cocks to toys oh yes , It burns but is part of the leading to pleasure , I love a butt plug as well it helps when you have a dom who loves anal makes things a bit easier. And than there is the headspace bonding of feel with the act itself , One can only love being the center of his attention when we gets these chances to be .

[software]

Can't get enough of it.

Not to fond of fingers anally but toys, real, or plug and i'm all for it. Master wants to try to fist me anally. That is going to have to be a weekend project, or maybe a week long. ROFL

having the sub/slave bound tightly around the ankles, knees, and under the hips with the wrists tied to the thighs. I then like to tape the ass cheeks spread apart so that the anus is exposed and helpless.

NICE Sirdred!!

software

[sub_sequent]

Master only started me with anal very recently..... So far I can only say that I love it.......love it......love it....

[Fumiko-Oppai]

Having an education in biology and physiology, I'm far too aware of the delicate nature of the intestinal lining and such...that stated, I find anal play to be a pleasure, but one I prefer to occur occasionally so as to not take the 'shine' off it. Anal sex though...no, I'm far too concerned about possible damage. Master is fine with my Limit regarding that as he feels the same way and isn't too interested in things that could threaten our lives or health in such a serious manner in such an easily-done manner.
YES, many people indulge in it without harm, and we do not judge or think negatively about such--but it's not for us.

As for anal play and enemas, those are FINE with me.

[Noxifer]

I tend to do anal occasionally as past experiences soured me on the matter but if my love wants to I will indulge but only when it is good for her

[Fumiko-Oppai]

I tend to do anal occasionally as past experiences soured me on the matter but if my love wants to I will indulge but only when it is good for her

That's a very Decent and compassionately-proper way! I applaud that thinking! Some males, they don't ask as they think it'll be a fun 'surprise'. Our Dam had an experience like that, and the male didn't enjoy her response which caused him to flee for his life.

[WandaWicked]

I have often wondered how many gals really like anal sex . In the chat room most if not all say they love it but how many in real life actualy do luv it

Never tried it, or even anal 'play', but I'm willing to see what it's like with Master as I Trust him not to do it wrong and hurt me internally.
Gonna need a LOT of lube, though...