For a long time I always had fantasies of dominating others and using them for my pleasure. I loved reading erotic stories with a strong, dominant female character I could relate to, and playing out her feats over and over in my head with me in her shoes. Funnily enough, however, when I got my first chance to really dominate someone I discovered I didn't have it in me, and instead craved to be the one being dominated! So the roles switched, and I've realised I'm most definitely a submissive. I still have the desires and fantasies to dominate, so here's hoping I can develop my skills enough to be able to give domming another go one day. As my profile says, 95% sub, 5% domme, though I'm not sure my chances are even that good! :P