I'm not only a kink virgin, but sexually inexperienced for my age. I'm trying to get into a romantic relationship, but since all of my sexual fantasy involve kink, whenever I go on an online date, there's no sexual chemistry.

I've looked at several of the "kink dating" sites, but all of them are mostly looking for people to play with, and that's not what I want. Also, since I really DON'T know what I'm doing, I am very uncomfortable going to a kink-themed group by myself. Also, that seems like a weird setting for meeting a potential relationship...

So, does anyone know about an site that caters to kinksters who are interested in actually dating, not just finding a master, or a slave, or someone to play with?

thanks!