What unique ideas have you had that may be punishments or pain devices?

[Taylor.M]

Id like to open a thread for all the Dominates or submissives to share some of their experinces with unique punishments or pain devices.
I am not sure where my idea came from, if I stole it somewhere or dreamed it up on my own as it has been in mind for so very long....but the unique device I have devised and have had my slave wear is what I call a "training bra". It is a simply made device consisting of a bra with and inner padded section and an accesible outter section of the cup. The sections are seperated and 3 to 9 metal thumb tacs are placed inside pointing into the cup. It can be worn for extended time and has a nasty effect as there is no adjusting it without removal.
Hope that there are many ideas and examples posted here on out!

[Snark]

A punishment bra has been around for centuries. It was devised at least as far back as the Inquisition, though the device was a bit more brutal than thumbtacks. Pamela's "Taxi To Torture" in the Library has a great series of chapters on wearing one. The library is an excellent place to research devious punishment and pain devices...though some might be a bit difficult to fabricate or implement.

[UnholyAdvent]

Nothing new but I always found making your sub stand on their tip toes face to face againt the wall with thumbtacks, broken glass, hot embers if you can, or anything else painful you can think of placed underneath their feet and at least 2-3 feet back that way they can't try to jump over it very entertaining to watch.
Not sure if I can claim it original or not but I developed a bind where the sub is locked down in say doggie-style position with two ropes stretching their arms criss crossed supporting their overall body weight.. probably not the best description so I will try to post a pic of it later, very nice bind.

[denuseri]

Whatever you come up with I highly advise that you keep your bdsm activities: Safe, Sane and Consensual.

Upi may also find it useful to try some of these things out on yourself before using someone else to "experiemnt" with.

[UnholyAdvent]

Whatever you come up with I highly advise that you keep your bdsm activities: Safe, Sane and Consensual.

Upi may also find it useful to try some of these things out on yourself before using someone else to "experiemnt" with.

Okay I understand your thing for safe practices in all and that everything should be consensual between both sides which I totally agree with. But eventually down the line in BDSM somewhere your going to come across some "not so safe", or "not so sane" individuals who's methods or practices though bizarres, but if consensual they why keep them in the closet?

[denuseri]

I didnt say anything about keeping things hidden...I am speaking specifically about real life here, not fantasies. Placing a submissive in an unsafe torture/stress position where if they faulter serious bodily harm will be the resulat...more than likely requiring a trip to the ER isnt imho Safe or Sane no matter how consensual the avctivity may have been.

[UnholyAdvent]

I didnt say anything about keeping things hidden...I am speaking specifically about real life here, not fantasies. Placing a submissive in an unsafe torture/stress position where if they faulter serious bodily harm will be the resulat...more than likely requiring a trip to the ER isnt imho Safe or Sane no matter how consensual the avctivity may have been.

Clearly this is where our difference lays. I consider something like that safe and sane, more so thats only scratching the surface of things that I would do and love done to me.

[denuseri]

Then I hope you have a good lawyer, cuase when you come into the ER one too many times like that the local authorities I am sure will be notified.

[Nemeth]

You are totally correct, A person cannot consent to an act being done to them that cumilates in serious or grievious bodily harm to themselves.

[LadyArana]

I think that the other main philosophy behind BDSM activities is vastly under-rated but allows for some of the more extreme forms of kink to happen. RACK. Risk Aware Consensual Kink. "Risk Aware" indicating that, while the activity may not be safe or particularly sane, but both parties are aware of the risks involved and have consented to take part. As far as interesting devices, I have always found that the simplist things can be the most effective. Such as making a sub/slave kneel on rice on a tile or hard wood floor.

[ImperialWaltz]

I have hot sticks(thats the game) that do no damage to the person or the nerves. but will make them feel like they're on fire. I tie or chain my slave down, put it on her nipples and let it slowly heat up until it feels like it burns her. does no harm too her but its very effective. she's always learned her lesson afterwards

[DontFWM]

Keep your bdsm activities: Safe, Sane and Consensual....To do anything else is stupidity...

UnholyAdvent.quotes..Nothing new but I always found making your sub stand on their tip toes face to face againt the wall with thumbtacks, broken glass, hot embers if you can, or anything else painful you can think of placed underneath their feet and at least 2-3 feet back that way they can't try to jump over it very entertaining to watch.

Entertaining to watch.?.......You pretend experience.!!............I dont think so.........

UnholyAdvice....Clearly this is where our difference lays. I consider something like that safe and sane, more so thats only scratching the surface of things that I would do and love done to me.

Those words are the key to you UnholyAdvice..."I would do" and "Love done to me"

Safe, Sane and Consensual.That IS the only way...

[hoosakitty]

Thank you sir. A sub places themselves in the hands of their master...a trust that must not be taken lightly. It is our duty and pleasure to obey, so to put us in a position where our choice is to
disobey or be faced with real harm can not always be seen as consensual, especially when it is simply our nature to do what we are told.

[leo9]

Keep your bdsm activities: Safe, Sane and Consensual....To do anything else is stupidity...



Entertaining to watch.?.......You pretend experience.!!............I dont think so.........



Those words are the key to you UnholyAdvice..."I would do" and "Love done to me"

Safe, Sane and Consensual.That IS the only way...

Part of the importance of SSC is to distinguish between what's realistically practical, and fantasies of the "don't try this at home" kind. As soon as Advent mentioned broken glass and hot coals it was clear he was fantasising, but less experienced readers might mistake it for a genuine suggestion based on real experience, with tragic results.

[SweetPain]

Using the back of ur hand to smack your submissives back. Tie them first. Well atleast this.is.one of.the techniques that my lady does not enjoy. It's uncomfortable, not the sting of pain she usually enjoys..

[leo9]

Id like to open a thread for all the Dominates or submissives to share some of their experinces with unique punishments or pain devices.
I am not sure where my idea came from, if I stole it somewhere or dreamed it up on my own as it has been in mind for so very long....but the unique device I have devised and have had my slave wear is what I call a "training bra". It is a simply made device consisting of a bra with and inner padded section and an accesible outter section of the cup. The sections are seperated and 3 to 9 metal thumb tacs are placed inside pointing into the cup. It can be worn for extended time and has a nasty effect as there is no adjusting it without removal.
Hope that there are many ideas and examples posted here on out!

As noted in the replies to Advent, thumbtacks are on the risky side unless you actually turn on to drawing blood. I discovered that very early on in my childhood self-bondage games when I got one in my foot and had to pass it off to my mother as an accident.

A safer version of the same idea I described thus in one of my published books:
"You start with some of those pot-scourers that are wads of steel shavings, butter the inside of a bra cup with epoxy, wrap it round a scourer and leave it to set. Then you snip the cloth free with tough scissors, leaving cut ends of steel all over it, long enough to hurt without breaking the skin. Repeat twice more."

"Twice more" to make a complete set of underwear, with the crotch lined with steel prickles as well as the bra cups.

Heat, like spikes, is great if you use it in safe ways. My favourite, which I haven't seen described elsewhere, is to spreadeagle a sub and then put a nice fresh hot water bottle under her ass. No fluffy cover, just scalding hot rubber. You can either leave her straining up off it as a predicament, or have a fuck enlivened by lots of bucking and screams.

(To be strictly accurate, I did pick up this idea somewhere else, now I think of it; it came from a story in a sex magazine long ago, where a rapist catches his victim doing the ironing, and puts the iron under her butt to make her give him a lively ride. But that version of the idea definitely classes as unsafe.)

[thir]

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Heat, like spikes, is great if you use it in safe ways. My favourite, which I haven't seen described elsewhere, is to spreadeagle a sub and then put a nice fresh hot water bottle under her ass. No fluffy cover, just scalding hot rubber. You can either leave her straining up off it as a predicament, or have a fuck enlivened by lots of bucking and screams.
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Though they do, in fact, burn the skin..

[thechair]

I think that while yes, you have to be safe in kink and you have to know what you're doing, the bottom line with all risky play is trust between you and your partner. There are many things that I do with my sub that I would not dream of doing to someone I had just met, purely because they do not know me and they ultimately don't know what I'm capable of.
In reference to the original post, therefore, one of the best play sessions I've had with my sub was to pretty much use things that were on my body at the time as restraints: my neck tie held her hands together at the top of the bed, my belt buckled around her feet, my shirt stuffed partly into her mouth and her flat-backed hairbrush was used to administer a good spanking. She informed me of how much that stung, especially when I dragged the spiky side across the painful areas of her bottom.

[thechair]

I think that while yes, you have to be safe in kink and you have to know what you're doing, the bottom line with all risky play is trust between you and your partner. There are many things that I do with my sub that I would not dream of doing to someone I had just met, purely because they do not know me and they ultimately don't know what I'm capable of.
In reference to the original post, therefore, one of the best play sessions I've had with my sub was to pretty much use things that were on my body at the time as restraints: my neck tie held her hands together at the top of the bed, my belt buckled around her feet, my shirt stuffed partly into her mouth and her flat-backed hairbrush was used to administer a good spanking. She informed me of how much that stung, especially when I dragged the spiky side across the painful areas of her bottom.

[sub_sequent]

Maybe then SSC is not descriptive enough.......that might be the reason for RACK.... Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

Knowing something carries risk......and what those risks are is, in my mind, only part of it. Minimising those risks and then having a satisfying and fulfilling play session. Isn't that in the end what we are all after?
Being able to make an informed and intelligent choice...........why is that acceptable in vaniila but some people throw that out of the window as soon as they think of play.

It amazes me how many new subs have never heard of either of these.

And i agree with thechair. AFTER SSC and RACK......then trust can be the guide.

[sub_sequent]

With regards to pain ideas.....

I know this idea is not unique but i have not seen it mentioned here. Also, when i asked an experienced sub, she had also not heard of it. So, i thought it might be a good thing to mention.

I call them 'devil sticks'
2 sticks tied together with a rubber band. And nipples put between the 2 sticks.

Of course....thats not all that can go between those sticks.... it hurts like i cant explain but it is Soooo worth it.

I'm trying to upload a picture....i will see if it works.

[leo9]

With regards to pain ideas.....

I know this idea is not unique but i have not seen it mentioned here. Also, when i asked an experienced sub, she had also not heard of it. So, i thought it might be a good thing to mention.

I call them 'devil sticks'
2 sticks tied together with a rubber band. And nipples put between the 2 sticks.

Of course....thats not all that can go between those sticks.... it hurts like i cant explain but it is Soooo worth it.

I'm trying to upload a picture....i will see if it works.

It's a classic idea, I haven't used it myself as I prefer spring clamps, but you'll find plenty of pictures on the sites attached to this very forum. And yes, I've also seen it used as an interesting and presumably painful tongue gag.

[sub_sequent]

And yes, I've also seen it used as an interesting and presumably painful tongue gag.



The suggestion for its use wasn't on the tongue..... But rather on the pussy lips, Sir.

I had it done to me only once but seeing my Masters pride and satisfaction at what i had endured for His pleasure made the pain seem like nothing.

[lucy]

Yeah, them sticks. I have experienced them on my tongue. Wasn't too painful since the force with which they clamp down can be perfectly adjusted and pain wasn't the objective. However, it was totally annoying to drool all over myself.
That being said: The most evil device I've ever felt was a rubber band. I wouldn't have thought that something so simple could be so hellishly painful. I was even dumb enough to laugh when he approached me with that in hand. Big mistake.

Being able to make an informed and intelligent choice...........

Mwahaha, good joke.

It amazes me how many new subs have never heard of either of these.

I've recently seen a feature about the pill after where a 20 years old woman didn't know what a menstrual cycle is. So, no, not amazed, let alone surprised, about that, either.

[MeanDean]

Id like to open a thread for all the Dominates or submissives to share some of their experinces with unique punishments or pain devices.
I am not sure where my idea came from, if I stole it somewhere or dreamed it up on my own as it has been in mind for so very long....but the unique device I have devised and have had my slave wear is what I call a "training bra". It is a simply made device consisting of a bra with and inner padded section and an accesible outter section of the cup. The sections are seperated and 3 to 9 metal thumb tacs are placed inside pointing into the cup. It can be worn for extended time and has a nasty effect as there is no adjusting it without removal.
Hope that there are many ideas and examples posted here on out!

Hi, Yes i have tried that on my girl. But a small deviation, instead of padded inner i had used a layer of dough. It initially prevented the thumb tacks from pricking her breast. But once we were out to the exhibition, as she started bumping against the crowd, after some time, thumb tack started pressing through the dough and reached her skin and the discomfort started, the dough sticking to her breast ensured that the tack pricked at the same point continously preventing them from slipping.

[LaMarrKee]

here are a few I think you'll find useful; all tested in actual service.
1) Screwy C’pins: Take wooden clothespins, and with a very thin bit, drill a pilot-hole thru both jaws together, right in the center of the fat part of the jaws where they make contact. Then *take small screws, or better yet, small eye-screws, that have a ring on one end-such as are used in fine cabinetry, sand the points off to slightly round them, and prevent immediate breaking of the skin, and screw them thru the pilot holes so the points meet in the middle, and stand sightly proud of (say, 1/16") the wood. This focuses the pressure down to just those 2 tiny points... and the screw are Infinitely adjustable to achieve the Precise degree of pain desired. The eye-screws also allow weights to be hung easily.

2)- As mentioned above- tacky-pads for the bra: ... Take 2 thick acrylic scrub-pads (dollar store)- get the ones as thick as the standard thumb-tack is long, and put one tack right in the very center. Then make a pattern of your preference... a star, concentric circles, diamonds- centered around that first tack. Wear those pads inside your bra for a day.*The tips will not break the skin, but they should dimple it nicely- and pre-sensitize your tits for play later in the evening, if you wear them thru the day.

3) Another thumb-tack idea I've had good results from is *a seat-pad made out of two mouse-pads... one thick, and the other thin. The thick one, again, should be as thick as the shaft of your tacks is long- *with your name, say, being 'jen', or ‘janet’, I'd make 2 J's out of tacks, pushing them thru the thick pad, so that when you sit upon the pad, the curves of the j are on your buttocks, with the long shaft running down the back of your thighs. Vary the initial to the individual; the main thing is to cover the buttock and the back thigh as much as you can. Once you have the tacks in place- *glue the 2nd pad over the heads of the tacks to sandwich them in place... and use the pad when sitting at the computer, or wherever. It's a good way not to fall asleep in traffic, too...

4) Blind-cord flogger: - take that 1/8" thick white cord they use for living-room venetian blinds? Get 9 lengths of it, 10' long; tie them into groups of 3 with a small knot at the one end (Or, just lash them if you don't want the knot-bulk. I find it useful, myself). Braid a normal 3-strand braid up for 16-18", and then wrap a lashing around to keep the braid from un-ravelling; make 2 more just like the first. Then lash all 3 knotted ends together (the little knots then make a nice pommel to stop it slipping from your hand in use), and braid the braided sections up together in that same 3-strand braid, till you have the handle-length you want. Lash it well, at that point, and put as many knots and such along each flail as you like, then cut the flails to your preferred final length- and, voila!

5) Lamp-cord Martinet- Take a 12-15’ length of lamp-cord, split it into it’s two halves, then find the center-point of each half, and knot them together at that point. Then do a basic 4-cord braid for the length of handle you want, and knot the cords again to finish the braid and leave the tails free to be trimmed to your preferred length. Of you use 2 lengths of unsplit lampcord, you can divide them after the handle-braid for an 8-tail cat. But, be warned! Both of these should only be used lightly, until you see how they handle and the impact they have. Either one can badly cut flesh if used too hard.

6) The Persuader: Take any belt, and put it around the lass'es waist- it is unimportant other than as a support for the persuader, so any belt will do. Take 2 reasonably-thick (say, 1/16", good-quality) leather strips, approx 3/4" to 7/8" wide, tapering slightly to each end, and about 6-8 " in length. Take, then, 1" long straight-pins, and put them along the one strip as it is laid flat, alternating points and heads, drawing the heads to the outer edge of the strip, but not actually 'On' to it. Cover at least 4" of the length, Mine has a pin every 1/4", so the points show 1/2" apart. Then glue the other strip atop it, without disturbing the pins, and put two long laces, one at each end, to tie it front and back on the belt. When she is bent, the strip is tied to the back of the belt, then pulled taut to the front, so it lays along her crease,esp. over her anal ring and almost to her ‘taint’ , which is splayed as she is bent- not enough to hurt, just enough to give purchase. But if she tries to stand, or clench, under the cane, she is ‘persuaded’ this is unwise.

7) Electric pony. Take a galvanised metal plate, tack it to a square of plywood- solder a wire to one corner. This is the standing-area for the sub, so make it at Least 2’ square, preferably 3’. Then take a 6-v flashlight battery (Or a 9-v battery and it’s little connector-cap pad, and hook to the wires off it) and hook one post up to that wire. Next. Take 2 stiff plastic pipes 2” dia., minimal) and mount them solidly into floor-stands; if you can also attach them to the roof so they are rigid, this is best of all. On these pipes, set 2 adjustable clamps that can slide up and down to any desired height- and between these two clamps, secure a copper pipe as long as the two uprights are apart- again, stiff, not flexible.
I found 1” seemed to work well. To this pipe, solder another wire, leading back to the 2nd post on the battery. If the lass stands on tip-toe on the galvanised plate, one sets the cross-bar to say, 1/2”-3/4” below her crotch. As long as she stays on tip-toe, she’s fine- but as her thighs and labia touch the cross-pipe, the circuit completes. And all shocks are below heart level, and DC current, too- totally safe, unless there is a medical condition.

8) PEX cane. Take a 36” length of 1/2” PEX tubing (used for plumbing). It is very flexible- so I then took a 1/4” wooden dowel, sanded it just enough to fit in the PEX, coated it with glue, and inserted it down the center of the tube, then left it to set. This is lightweight, stiff enough to be Very accurate- and one of the few toys I have poppet fears. Adjust the length to your own preferences; if you have large hands, make the handle longer than 6”, etc. This is one thing I Do like- the toy can be tailor-made to one’s own specs.

9) Zipper. I included this because I was asked to; most people already know it. I cannot take any credit, here. Take a length of string, and along it, separating the clothespins by about 2-1/2" , or even 3”, between, string the clothespins, tying knots on each side of the pin to keep it in its place. Try to get a dozen or so pins on each zipper- I really prefer 13, just 'because'-lol. When one attaches all the clothespins, you see- say, across the breasts from nipple to nipple, or with 2 of them, over the breasts and down both sides- then with one swift yank undoes them all from you- it feels like you are being 'un-zipped'. Hence the name.

10) Sting: Take an electronic wasp-killer- pref. One that uses a 9-v battery- the kind that look like a child’s toy plastic tennis racquet, with steel cross-bars instead of netting. Cut the entire head off, being careful not to cut the wires that lead from the capacitor to the head you are removing. When you can see those, take as much slack as you can in the wire, keeping most in the handle end, and cut it free. Then take 2 of the steel cross-bars, and solder one to each of the two capacitor wires. Finally, wrap each connection well in electrical tape, then build up the whole head of the handle with the tape to form a flexible seal that allows the two free tips of the steel rods to be adjusted for distances apart. Mine can go from a 1/8” spark-gap to 6”. I.e., from the width of a clit or sphincter, to any area on the body, really. Touching both sides of the vaginal wall can be interesting if one holds the on-button down. She clenches up, and the shocks keep coming.. (well, *I* think it’s fun)

11) Labia-clamps. Take a pair of pants-hangars that have the cam-neck and a cross-bar that divides when the neck is twisted sideways (They hold pants by their cuffs, to avoid creasing across the knees). Cut off most of the wood, leaving just enough to leave the metal and neck still solidly attached- then sand the corners round and smooth, and line the inside faces of the cross-bars with sandpaper to help the grip. When applied, they grip the whole labia- and the neck-hook can then be put beneath her garters, so she is held totally open for whatever you may wish.

12) Hot Needles. Acquire up to 1 dozen, but minimally 6, biology-kit dissection needles, like you used to see in high school when they hauled out the frogs. A 6-8” wooden handle, with a 2 to 2-1/2” steel point. You also need the alcohol burner from a fondue set, and you’ll have to bend a section of coat-hangar into a suitable rack (like in an ash-tray, for holding the cigarettes) so that it will hold the needles in a circle around the burner, with the tips all held in the flame. The idea with these is NOT to penetrate the flesh, but just to touch the tips to the skin. I can usually get 2 touches before the needle needs a re-heat. I can space the touches as closely as every square 1/4”, if I wish- so one can take a LONG time to even cover a single breast. And under/behind the knees, or in the armpits, or the inner walls of the vagina, when she is held open by the above-mentioned labia-clips, ought not to be neglected either. Again: Do NOT penetrate the flesh. You want to hurt her- Not Cook her.

13) Fan-belt single-tail : This is for Serious players ONLY! Take the well-worn fan-belt off a car when next one is replaced- if it is broken, simply cut the ends clean, then mount to a handle; otherwise, slice it into a single length instead of the loop, and mount to a handle. Only the well-used ones will straighten out to a single-tail; new ones won’t lose the bend. But this is heavy! It has Impact! And it Hurts! Be Very careful till you get the feel of it.

14) Shoe-horn - There is a style of plastic shoehorn, that comes in assorted colors, that is about 20’ long, with a 2” ring molded at the end-bulge at the end of the handle, to hang the shoehorn from. This toy needs NO modification. The slight curve at the tip almost perfectly matches the curve of a buttock; the convex side gives on type of impact; the concave side, due to air-compression in the hollow, a different kind. And again, no need to over-exert oneself, it is All in the wrist-action. This is an Exceptional! Spanking tool; I recommend it to Every toybox.

15) Eeny-meany-miney-Mo Eeny-meany-miney-and-Mo are 4 paddles I cut from 1/4" plywood- the blades are 30" long, with a 6" handle, for total 3'. The blades vary from 1-1/2' (eeny), 2-1/2" (meany), 4" (miney), and 6" (Mo). All have a rounded tip, and the edges sanded to remove the corners. and Mo has a series of 3/8" holes, set 1” apart down the vertical rows for a distance of 2 feet (the impact area), all chamfered on both sides, drilled in 3 rows off-set from one another (staggered, sideways) and the outer 2 rows set 1-1/4" outwards from the central one. When it is used, the flesh gets pushed up into the holes, you see.... an effect one has to experience; no description, I'm told, can do it justice. However, all of the others get very high ratings from the subjects each was tested on- eeny, it was unanimously judged, was deceptive indeed. One caution- Make SURE to chamfer the holes. Otherwise, you get a cookie-cutter effect in the holes, and you can actually remove small divots of skin and flesh if the impact is hard enough; the flesh almost vacuum-seals into the hole, and cannot release in time as the paddle comes away. So- Be CAREFUL.

16) Small hair-clips - There are small plastic hair-clips, sold a dozen or twenty to the card, for small girls’ hair; they open along a central spring, like a clam-shell, and have little teeth or fingers along each rim; they often are shaped to look like butterflies, or small flowers. These make Excellent nipple and labial clips for long-term wear; if the lass rotates them 90 degrees every half-hr or so, they can be worn all day long with no ill effects, tho the nipples Will get very sensitive, especially if they’ve also been confined in a bra. On the labia, they can be positioned so that as she walks, they click together and slightly catch on one another, to provide a constant stimulation by their pulling and tugging. These are bought, not made- but are very inexpensive, and can provide excellent ‘light’ play thru the day.


There- something for every taste; I hope they find appreciation in your toyboxes as well.