i was having a conversation with someone a few weeks back about the face im submissive and was told that being submissive makes me weak.

at the time i disagreed but now it still plays on my mind. im not in a D/s relationship at the moment as all my times taken up with the baby, but im concerned that if i was to enter into one of these relationships and being sub means im weak then how is that going to influence her life? should i learn to be more assertive? is being sub a sign of weakness? im confused.

(sorry for all the bad grammer i hate trying to type on my phone)