Ohhhh, for me in r/l i am shy and way to busy to go anywhere or really do anything besides what involves the horses. I kind of let myself go and have fun in the chat room to take my mind off things, especially when i am really busy and need a lift up. However, in real life, i don't act up and have a serious side to me. I try not to offend anyone and the ones i do goof around with i always ask them first if they mind. I feel its better that way then have people get annoyed or hurt with my actions. Doing what i do and some of the stuff that i see this is the only way that i can get my mind off of things and stay somewhat sane, and because i have a big commitment to the horses many of my r/l friends have left me due to the fact that i don't wan't to go out and party with them and such, so really besides the horses, the kids, and my dad along with the people that i go to and get the horses from that's the only communication i have outside of the chat room.