Hello Lady Kissa, thanks for the response.
I'm not saying I'm new to the lifestyle but rather that I met someone I like that is. I am not fool enough to think I can "go vanilla" though. I like vanilla sometimes, just not all the time...
Does that make sense? I'm not looking for a 24/7 Master to Dominate my entire existence. I have too much going on in my life for that. That alone makes me a loser in both worlds. Too much freak or not enough.