hoosakitty

At times, it is strangely sedative to know the extent of your own powerlessness.
~ Erica Jong

To be powerless...the ultimate eroticism of all submissives. But sedative? Yes, i think so. When confident in the exchange of power...to know that the one you have given over to has your life in their hands, and will do only good and wonderful things with it. How calming and soothing that can be--no performance anxiety, no wondering if your good enough--just the sacrifice of one's self and the sedative knowledge that someone else is in control.