shybabygirl24

Everything started out half decent yesterday I was up with the girls 6:30am. Around 10:45 am I realized he had a call to make or he was going to get introuble. He had went to bed the evening before at about6:30. Made sure that he called. I asked him honey when do you want me to get you up? (Well of course I realized he was tired.)
He replied when the girls get home 4:15
So as much as I didn't want to at 4:30 I tried to wake him up(every time in the past he gets mad if I don't) I couldn't wake him up so I said screw it he can sleep as long as he wants the girls and I were having a blast chatting witch isn't something we get to do offend because he gets a "headache" when we do.
Anyhow he stumbles out about 5:30 the girls and I just sat watching TV quietly. Well he starts snoring extremely loud. So i said baby why don't you go back to bed and get so you can get some sleep.
All of a sudden out of nowhere he yells well why the hell did you wake me up then?
I said I was only doing what you told me to do and I have noticed with you I'm damned if I do damned if I don't. I just cant win with you can I? Even though I'm hurt and a little tiffed at him I say I'M sorry to him and give him a kiss. As I'm on my way out of the bedroom my oldest can see I'm hurt(plus I was crying) She says mommy are you OK. I said yes baby sometimes adults will argue she agrees.
The odd thing was the next thing she said was mommy hes being mean. I cant have my girls take sides so I tell her its OK daddy isn't feeling very good and we all know he can be grumpy.
After while he gets up on his own 11:30. He falls asleep in his chair again and starts snoring like you wouldn't believe. Plus I was getting tired anyway. I said hon I'm going to go to bed. Wouldn't you believe He starts yelling at me again telling me Ive been nagging at him all day.
Let me tell you I blew my top I said Just because your tired and sick does not give you the right to be a jerk to me ex specially when Ive been catering to you all day.2 times I made sure he had something to eat, made sure he didn't fall asleep with a cigarette,let him sleep all day only woke him up for a call he had to make to keep him out of trouble, Also when he told me to get him up even though I didn't try hard at all,and made sure he had plenty of liquid to drink.Not to mention making sure the kids made it to school, home, and to church. Plus cleaned up a few things. I told him I have had enough I was going to leave that he would have to figure out for once how to get the kids to school. As I was starting to pack up my stuff he took all the keys and hid them from me.Now here I am stuck up all night cause of him while he sleeps soundly in the bed.
I just don't know what to do any more. Does anyone have any advice?