chalsia

does anyone else have trouble taking *the first step*? I mean how do you approach someone, or even worse tell someone you have known for a long time and tell them that your thoughts are not always so.. so pure? And even if you go to an alternative lifestyle site, how do you admit on how you really feel about some things? I mean how can you trust someone to admit your most intimate thoughts.. to tell them what arouses you, what excites you.. what is a turn on? So my approach is always.. well what do you like? Trying to find out where there head is at, where they want to go with who and what they are. Being submissive can get so confusing and challenging .