this ones probably not going to make me too popular lol but surely one day it's got to be asked! who gets sick of the rosetinted D/s glasses? and who believes it 100%?
dont you ever get fed up with all the oooh im a true sub/slave and im a true Dom/me s**t? i mean come on subs AND slaves dont you ever feel like saying f**k off im gonna do what I wanna do and when I wanna do it! and nooo not tonight i got toothache,and Dom/mes dont you ever feel like saying ffs get off your ass and think/do for yourself, im pissed off today ive had a shit day at work i dont want to call you a good girl/boy, pat your head, acknowledge you've made my favourite meal, am too knackered to spend 75 mins suspending you from the rigging for the sake of 20 mins!

maybe im different to everyone else around here, i dont know but i am so bloody fed up of people in the ''lifestyle'' saying how they cant live/breathe without serving,there only reason in life is to serve ...or they HAVE to have control or they cant run a r/ship cant imagine it any other any way etc etc
i mean if thats really true then how the hell do these people cope in there every day lives?

i know for me personally ive lived too long (all of my 38yrs lol) to believe in that crap anymore,i dont work but i have feelings, i have problems, emotions, opinions and a family to take care of; the outside world to deal with and regardless of anything no matter what it just is simply impossible to work it that way!